I lost someone tragically and I can tell you its very difficult to love again, but not impossible too I think for me in todays day and age people are changing all the time and Romance has lost its true touch, Like why are we so lazy to consistently show someone you interested till they are convinced. why say a whole lot of words that don't coincide with actions, I have picked a lot up in the 12 years I am single and the longer I stay single the more I get use to it and it gets more difficult for someone to convince me.. maybe I am the problem or maybe I just know what is right and feels right.. Who knows....