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Mon 01/28/13 06:50 PM

When I must think I write.
When I write I express.
When I express I better understand.
When I better understand I can better act.
When I act I am prepared.
When I am prepared I am able.
When I am able I can succeed.
When I can succeed I am willing.
When I am willing I can share.
When I can share I am happy.
When I am happy I am complete.

Poetry is my self expression.
My writing is my clarity.
Without it I am lost!

If I can't win a smile or touch a heart with my words, my actions will never have audience.


Awesome!

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Mon 01/28/13 06:39 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 01/28/13 06:41 PM
I think that's might be what moved me most of all.
On the spot...

Now Shhhh... before the rumors start.
(264 views... they's a watchin', haha)

Sleep well luv...

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Mon 01/28/13 06:15 PM
That is a nice write!!
I liked it and hope to see more.drinker

I do hope that nothing erases anyone from your memory...
but those are my own thoughts.

Yours flowed freely... Bravo!

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Mon 01/28/13 05:59 PM
That's my girl...
That shakes me to the soul.

That's generally when I smile too.
(When I can't remember why I wasn't before.)

Gorgeous!! Sincerely meant.

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Mon 01/28/13 05:53 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 01/28/13 05:54 PM
I like it when a person expresses themselves well.
The form doesn't matter as much as the meaning and intent.
Honesty seems most important to me...
Catch my intention... and I'll do my best to learn/realize your way of communicating.

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Mon 01/28/13 05:38 PM

Teditis...would you want to know of the pale pink lip gloss teasing smile....wait,that may make you smile....or the 'baby' smile...the oooo can i hold the baby smile....or the smile when i lft my face to the warm sun....or the smile that comes right ater i stick out my tongue....or my im pleased smile...........

Ho hum... you got better writing in you than that.

No... I don't want all that, TB.
Though it does seem nice... and a part of you; one aspect anyway. (It's the "you" I'd like to know more of... internet is such a filter in that regard... so I try to read between the lines, sweetie.)

You teasing me on Mingle... yawn

You writing the things that you feel... w/o my input; that's what I want to know.
Grace with me a few hints to my moronic questions... I'll imagine the rest.
flowers More than love... respect.

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Mon 01/28/13 05:26 PM



ok so everyone lies.... got that.

How about I add a twist?
The severity of a lie....different?
The frequency of lies....different?

I'm asking because I'm being told that everyone lies by my ex...whom is an ex for being an impostor type of liar. Someone who paints himself from the beginning as something he is NOT kind of liar. But will also lie about whether he went fishing that day or not. Liar liar liar all the time lying about one thing or the other. I understand that everyone can lie from time to time. In my book though, if you lie to me...you come back with the truth asap and tell me you lied, and that you are sorry, and will try harder to muster the courage to not do it again. Then you get forgiveness. Otherwise? If I have to catch you, it's totally different.

To me what lying is??? A lack of courage to tell it like it is. If you did it? FESS it! If you don't want to have to? Then don't do stupid crap to cause the temptation to lie in the first place.
Simple.

Here's simple... trust your own intuition.
Acknowledge that it all hurt you deeply.
Quit expectly liars to start telling the truth,
just because you've come to an epiphany.

(But don't hate liars... focus on loving yerself. And your intuition.)


I was abused for years... It will take some time to drop the hatred when I speak of this man.

Otherwise, I'm pleased as punch the b**ch is gone! yaaaay!!!!:banana:

Well, that seems very well said!
Heart-felt and honest.

If I appeared to have assumed too much... I apologize.

I would never mean to suggest to you or anyone to drop their hatred... merely acknowledge it and accept as part of your "being", and then move forward.
As you do move forward... I hope that you'll consider allowing love for others to overwhelm your hate for him. (Just a dream, haha.)
Leaving that aspect of your life behind as you build on all the good things that you still possess. Never letting go... take all your baggage with you... just adding to who you already are.
:banana: drinker :heart: :banana: (A happy dance for you...)

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Mon 01/28/13 04:19 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 01/28/13 04:20 PM

now you made me smile.

Write something about that... you smiling.
(Meant as a simple request...)

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Mon 01/28/13 04:18 PM

ok so everyone lies.... got that.

How about I add a twist?
The severity of a lie....different?
The frequency of lies....different?

I'm asking because I'm being told that everyone lies by my ex...whom is an ex for being an impostor type of liar. Someone who paints himself from the beginning as something he is NOT kind of liar. But will also lie about whether he went fishing that day or not. Liar liar liar all the time lying about one thing or the other. I understand that everyone can lie from time to time. In my book though, if you lie to me...you come back with the truth asap and tell me you lied, and that you are sorry, and will try harder to muster the courage to not do it again. Then you get forgiveness. Otherwise? If I have to catch you, it's totally different.

To me what lying is??? A lack of courage to tell it like it is. If you did it? FESS it! If you don't want to have to? Then don't do stupid crap to cause the temptation to lie in the first place.
Simple.

Here's simple... trust your own intuition.
Acknowledge that it all hurt you deeply.
Quit expectly liars to start telling the truth,
just because you've come to an epiphany.

(But don't hate liars... focus on loving yerself. And your intuition.)

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Mon 01/28/13 04:12 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 01/28/13 04:12 PM
dbl post... sorry.

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Mon 01/28/13 04:11 PM

in some shape form or fashion... "Everyone Lies"

Oh geez... are you still here?

(Ha, don't let my seemlingly obvious emotions come off as a lie... I'm really glad that you are. You're profound insights to the obvious are a help to me.)

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Mon 01/28/13 03:31 PM
Edited by Teditis on Mon 01/28/13 03:31 PM
Hmm...interesting point of view.

I thought that success was being comfortable in yer own skin.
That it had nothing at all to do with luck or repitition.
Getting the girl or whatever...
Shy/aggressive had little to do with it, either.

Some folks talk about "swag"... that they look for others that demonstrate such. Seems pretentious to me.

Me, I don't wanna "go get". I don't wanna be someone's idea of Pirate booty... and any girl turned on by such things would be my first clue that we wouldn't make for a good partnership.

But if that's what turns you on, I wish you all the best.
And I mean no disrespect in anything that I've said.
I just disagree with the foundational premise.

Never-the-less, I agree that removing fear is a good thing.
Hope that you're successful in that.
Others too...

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Mon 01/28/13 03:10 PM

How can a couple stay together with one person always lying about things? Big things, small things...does it matter when there's always one lie after the other? What do you think of partners that lie all the time?

One person tells them... the other believes them.
(Or at least pretends to.)
Where's the difference?

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Mon 01/28/13 01:50 PM
Shhhhh.flowerforyou

You please me everyday that you allow me to comment wihtout thinking me a stalker, haha.

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Mon 01/28/13 01:49 PM
Bruce - Brilliant Disguise
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idnJnjV_8rg

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Mon 01/28/13 01:42 PM

hmm...a man and his demand..
i will tell you a secret....
come close....
i cant,not,write...
shhhhhhh
i am pleased with your praise.





Totally unfair... you wanna communicate
but start off by telling me, "Shhhhhh."
laugh
I choose to Shhhhh, myself... because you've asked.

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Mon 01/28/13 01:38 PM
Van... Bright Side of the Road
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCDZzf4ragg

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Mon 01/28/13 01:35 PM



The sounds of silence. I am at work and not allowed to have a radio on. sigh :cry:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InBXu-iY7cw
this one is kinda soft...


OMG. This is too funny. Thanks for brightening up my day. flowerforyou

happy

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Mon 01/28/13 01:32 PM
Ha... women and their promises!
Just keep writing luv... I'm happy to watch you grow and share.

You make me think... I can't offer you better praise.

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Mon 01/28/13 12:39 PM
A goal... to think of others, as your
first thought.
Lovely. drinker

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