Hi, can someone tell me what it means when someone shows up in your list of people under the upper right hand heart? What does that signify? Thanks

Hey everyone, I have been messaging a guy from this site. It has gotten sexual(google hangouts). He lives an hour away. Saturday night I know he was horny and said he wanted to meet me the next day. I did not respond because it was obviously (to me) purely sexually motivated. He messaged me today. He did't bring up meeting again so I asked him a couple innocuous questions today, plus said "When do you want to get together.?" He only answered the innocuous ones and not the one about getting together.

He normally responds fairly quickly and there's been silence for a couple of hours. I'm kind of irritated. We agreed at the beginning that we'd be honest with each other. If he's not into me anymore or is pursuing someone else he should just say that. I'm not going to shrivel up and die. What is so horrible about giving an honest answer to a question? I'm not a back burner girl. I don't need to be. Really irritated and don't want to waste my time on this guy if he only wants sex. That's an insult.

Thanks for any thoughts!

Oh I forgot to say, as an afterthought I wrote, "Are you thinking about it or want to delay?" That is what I'm waiting for an answer to.