well I can't and won't speak for others but but I'm here to find a life long companion. With my old fashion up bringing I an set in my way and that's because of my standards and moral up bringing. But I know how to treat women right to let her know shes my everything
Mike

Hmm.

I have been married so 1 doesn't apply to me. I am not sure about 2. 3 is a tough one as I did make a commitment. Keeping a commitment isn't listed. I never saw myself as 4. I think 5 applies though. But then who doesn't have mommy issues?

I was married and my wife was killed in Israel 1983. I had 3 daughters and have been busy raising them. As a single dad in the military it was tough to even think about a relationship. Now my girls are gone and I want to share my life with someone. So, thats my story and why Im ready to settle down with someone. I have a good retirement as I spent 34 years in the Israeli Army and retired a Lt. Col. I want to share that with someone.

I can't tell you. I was on a site for people 50 and older and I would say that 1 out of 4 of the men that had contacted me had never been married.

For me it is a red flag because I am going to rightly or wrongly assume the following:

1. they are too picky

2. they are too set in their ways

3. they can't make a commitment

4. they are a playboy at heart

5. they still have mommy issues

Thank you for accepting all the things that I am...my dear future imaginary boyfriend.

That depends. Are we talking about leaving the toilet seat up and the cap off the toothpaste? Or burying bodies in the backyard?

If you have a bad Experience why take the chance of repeating that same experience.

I will Not get married again...


I believe in love and I will definitely do it again. Just because it didnt work out the 1st time dont mean that it wont work ever again. I think its a shame when people close themselves off, theres someone out there, someone special and for all of u who say u wont marry again, I dont believe it, cause as soon as u meet someone and fall in love with them, u will want to marry them and make that person yours.

No I am not happy. I have not given up. I like who I am, what I am doing with my life and I can keep busy with myself. So why am I not happy? I come home to an empty house, no one to share my day with. I love to cook but I rarely do, because I get tired of cooking for just me. I despise going to sleep at night, because the bed is always empty. I lothe waking up in the morning, because it is the same ol same ol every day.

I say howdy to every one I pass. I engage in conversation with other people around me. I feel that I am out going, not pushy. I am doing all that I can, yet there is nada. Not one, Hey, would you like to join us for canasta on Friday. ( I have not a clue how to play canasta. LOL ) Or we are going here on Saturday, why don't you come along. So ok, I ask them, How about we meet for lunch. You pick the day. I never hear from them. Or, come to a hockey game with me. Or, lets go to a movie. Again Nada.

So whats the answer? I do not have a clue.

Lonelyness drains the joy out of an ordinary day.

try being lonely in ur own house while u r living with someone that u loved but no longer having any connecting feelings for

I dont know what to tell you on that one. I mean there is alot more to a relationship than sex. But sex and attraction is something that I have learned that gets ignored and forgotten about...maybe some relationship therapy would help reignite the spark...Men also have physical issues that make it more difficult to engage in sexual activity. In that case we all hope that we have someone by our side who loves us despite our appearance, or even physical abilities...
what ever you chose, just take your time and really think it through.

Prolly less than what I would do for a Klondike bar

Love for my friends and family; I would sacrifice my life. For a relationship; I wouldn't sacrifice anything.

Rape is not a crime,is just a surprise sex...!pls what do u think

shhhhhhh you will see it