Well, guys are imature, and don't begin to grow up till they are forced to of there late, late 20's. It's not all guys, but most. I like tall girls, I would love to meet a 5'10'' girl, but I couldn't handle the size 12. Weither, you play video games or not really doesn't matter 2 us, and smoking onl has to do wth the few guys who do still smoke and that number is shrinking everyday. Hang in there, guys will start coming back down to earth and wake up and see what they have been missing. I wish you the best. Good Luck.