This is actually a simple evolutionary thing all women want a nice sweet romantic guy when they think about it. Not a single woman is actually attracted to them. Ur mind says u want one thing and ur body wants an ******* a guy you could easily imagine beating another guy dead with a rock to the temple. Men biologically want to mate with as many women as possible women biologically want to posses a man for protection procreation and safety of their offspring. Call it jaded but looks only get u so far i've done it both ways being sweet gets u blown off ignoring a woman flirting with other women in front of her not calling her will get u taken home. Mind u the spell wears off in short order and women realize they did it again and started dating a jackass.