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 Would You Date YourSelf if You Could? Yes  or No? & Why?
I am a loner by nature so I enjoy my own company. I can have conversation with myself and I can make myself laugh out loud... I'm so funny! However, if you meant that if there was a male version of myself, omg definitely not. I don't think I would be attracted to a male version of myself. so my answer is no. YOU'RE 71?!!! Wow, you're really hot, not hot for 71, just super, super hot! |
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Cheating
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Cause guys are wired differently than girls - plane and simple! I know this will sound like a cop out but do not blame your BF. Men are set up to spread their seed - look at the animal community, how many (other than geese) stay with the same mate? Guys were made to make more human beings so the human race would survive - think about it, we ejaculate millions of sperm at a time and you girls, only one eggs - we have so much more fertilizer to give so we have to release it. Now some of us are good at self release that we do not need help but most need someone to help us with that (hope that makes sense) and I know you girls and guys are going to hate me for this, but the male mind is very simple and it needs more stimulation than one person can give, so we seek out "varied" stimulation - other avenues that help us spread our seed. I've been married 30+ years and love my wife dearly, but I still have urges to "find another way" to spread my seed. I am not bored with my wife and I JO every other day or so but I still need more...... I used to think it was a curse but then I realized, that was the way I was wired. Girls can deal with it, guys cannot (and I hate that, but it is true). So love your BF for who he is and if you really want a DEEP, DEEP connection with him, understand that he needs more than you can give and tell him you love what he does to you and please keep doing it but you will not judge him for his actions. I hope that makes sense and I now many of you girls are going to hate me, but it is true! ********! There are women that cheat, there are guys that cheat. There are guys and women that wouldn't cheat. It's a matter of whether or not the person has principles or is just an *******! |
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Cheating
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There are people that would never cheat, I'm one of them, there are people that have no conscience and have no problem cheating, I'm guessing he's one of them. Any decent guy wouldn't be on a dating site if he's in a relationship.
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The real thing 😍
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I certainly agree that's not enough, I just think short of meeting that it's the best thing.
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It beats the Hell out of getting a DUI!
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I don't believe that there is just this special one person that you need to meet that's your soulmate. You just have to meet someone that clicks with you and you click with them. Then you both work hard at being nice to each other EVERYDAY! Everyone has seen that lucky couple that gets along so great, they're both very nice people, and they're very nice to each other. when one makes a mistake the other one doesn't give them a hard time, they're supportive.
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is there love without sex
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Do you guys do much in the way of fun things, like taking trips, just having a good time. I think being happy together doing other things can lead to it. When I was married, not only did we not have fun together she was mean as Hell, I had no desire to have sex with her. If you argue a lot that can kill sexual urges.
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The real thing 😍
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In my opinion talking on the phone would tell you more about a person than any online communication, other than the appearance of the person of course. I think people would be more relaxed and be themselves on the phone, at least after a few calls.
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SEX BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE
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Sounds like the correct answer to me!
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People pretty much don't change, but I think if you can find a good person that doesn't understand that you both have to work at it you might be able to open their eyes. If they truly comprehend and care about you there might be a shot with them, of course the chemistry has to be there.
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Lorain area
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Hi, I'm bored in North Ridgeville!
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I think very few relationships work out because both people have to work hard at making it work. I don't think many people comprehend that, and are willing or able. You both have to consciously not get angry or snippy at things that annoy you and you have to let them do things that you find uninteresting, you both pretty much have to learn to ALWAYS be nice. Really happy couples are rare!
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I think very few relationships work out because both people have to work hard at making it work. I don't think many people comprehend that, and are willing or able. You both have to consciously not get angry or snippy at things that annoy you and you have to let them do things that you find uninteresting, you both pretty much have to learn to ALWAYS be nice. Really happy couples are rare!
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Topic:
is there love without sex
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C'mon, it would really be interesting to see people's opinions about this. Of course everyone knows what Jay actually meant.
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is there love without sex
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Sure there's love without sex, but it's not enough. Sex without love is fine....much more than fine, but love without sex isn't good enough!
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Serious relationships are scary! It's what I hate about dating, if the date goes well you go on another date, if they keep going well you're a couple. Then engagement, then marriage, very scary!
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In love with love
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It's easy to not be in love with being in love, just go through a Hellish marriage that's all! I'm certainly not in love with being in love, I fear serious relationships.
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When I was married it was pure Hell, as soon as we were married she got really mean & no longer liked things I liked. My case is extreme but I think most guys that didn't have a good marriage just see marriage as not likely to be a good thing. Women are more in love with the thought of being married, it scares the Hell out of me!
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Topic:
BEST METAL BAND ????
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That's tough there are so many really great bands!
Avenged Sevenfold Iron Maiden Megadeth Metallica |
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