Identity is key.. Especially if u are so called black because we are the only race whos history is a mystery... Up to this day even racism is still amongst the tongue of many. If you dont who you are or where you stand in this life as a black man or black women then interracial companionship is just a way of rejecting yourself subconsciously to support a modern day way of thinking.
I am not a racist but I wouldn't date a white women even if she ticks all the boxes.. There will always b a box untickable.. we are not the same... By nature somewhat yes, in spirit.. no. I would feel incomplete.