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Thu 12/10/09 05:39 PM
Edited by samgem on Thu 12/10/09 05:40 PM

i would much rather have a kid then 20 cats and a dog!


Well, it didn't start out that way. It started with her taking in a litter of kittens....and then another......and then another....

I just picture having to get up at 4:30 am with a newborn that just woke me up an hour before I got up. Plus, I can't tell you how many couples I know that stay together just for the kids! I just don't want that.

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Thu 12/10/09 05:35 PM


Well here he is bigsmile drinker
Samgem meet MsBrittany- you both should chat- seems you both don't want the same thing

and they say internet dating is Hard!!!laugh


No, I don't think MsBrittany and I want the same thing.....lol

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Thu 12/10/09 05:27 PM
Edited by samgem on Thu 12/10/09 05:31 PM


Spears? Wow, tough crowd! lol. At least I'm honest. I just find that taking care of myself is hard enough and I have no desire for children.


There is nothing wrong with that... it's your preference. However, with preferences it does limit your selection.

That's probably why most of us are still single... we have preferences which limits who we are attracted to... or willing to have as a part of our lives.


Ya, I totally realize that not wanting kids totally limits my search. That's what made leaving my soon to be ex-wife difficult. She didn't want kids either but had an obsession with animals. She literally has 20 some-odd cats! and a dog! See the problem? lol It was me or the animals and she chose the animals! lol

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Thu 12/10/09 05:22 PM
I hear ya, MsBrittany, It makes dating 10 times harder when 99% of the world wants kids. I lived long enough to know that I definitely don't want any either.

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Thu 12/10/09 05:19 PM
Spears? Wow, tough crowd! lol. At least I'm honest. I just find that taking care of myself is hard enough and I have no desire for children.

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Thu 12/10/09 05:03 PM
Thanks. lol. Well, there are none in my area.

I realized that I should have posted this topic on a different thread.

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Thu 12/10/09 04:57 PM
It's not looking good for me so far.....

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