Jinkees, Gypsy!

Redshirt - you sound like a man that would move heaven and "google earth" to find love. I wish you success in your journey, my friend!

Were we separated at birth, ElaineSeekingJerry?!?!!? I understand exactly what you are saying...hence my username!

Sure...he said "Don't think so much, babe!"

I will admit that I have been guilty of throwing myself into work and even my volunteerism, but that has been to fill a void. I was aware of what I was doing, and for a season it was ok. However, I was glad to know that I was still capable of throwing my arms open to love this past year and was willing to make time ~ and room ~ in my life for it. Hell, I even turned off my cell phones and blackberry when we were together! Now THAT'S love!

LOL...that has been my experience too! Nothing wrong with the "sumpin, sumpin," but it can be so, so much more! Funny how there's always time for the sex....

Subconsious...or safe? I think it's more the later, and it's highly overrated!

No, you have it right. Finding someone who will do the same is what's hard! I do what you do, despite a busy schedule and lots of demands on my time. It may not always be returned, but the truth is that I wouldn't know how ~ or want to ~ love any other way. Besides, that special time together only encourages and energizes me to accomplish the things I need to do...cause I'm happy!! That's the "me, me, me" side we should focus on...cause you always get alot back when you let love in.

I know....I'm a sap!! LOL (COME ON, GYPSY! What's one more thing on the "TO DO" list?)

Pamper yourself, Coco! Read a book you've had your eye on...or watch a mushy old movie (have klennex handy!)

Organize your photo's...and take a fun trip down memory lane while you're at it! Write out what I call "Just because I think your great" notes to friends and family.

Whatever you do ~ HAVE FUN and KEEP COOL!!

I agree... but in this "me, me, me" society do people really have those priorities set? Do we know what's important any more?

You are right, Lemondrop. While helping a friend of mine decorate his new house, I was amazed at how specific and unwavering he was about every little detail. Despite his claims of wanting to get married soon, he was building a very custom life...for one. (It's quite the bachelor pad!!)

I asked what would happen if he finds someone to love. How would she fit in to his perfectly ordered world? His answer....she'll have to get rid of all her stuff!

I hear you, Gypsy! These days my calendar is on an Etch-O-Sketch cause things change so rapidly.

But, at the end of the day, I don't want to be snuggling up against my Blackberry and cell phone. That has a pretty sad "ring" to it, don't ya think?!?!

(This is what happens when I watch "Woman of the Year" with Spencer and Tracy!)

Rainysky...was it worth it?

I've only put myself "back on the market" this past year, but am wondering if ~ in this hectic, busy world ~ we still have time for love. Sure, we all say we want it, value it, would do anything for it; but time and time again I see, hear, and experience so many barriers and inflexible attitudes that love doesn't stand a chance.

Have we reached a point of being so set in our ways, so used to the little life we've created for ourselves, so inflexible, that we can't let love in the door when it comes knockin'? Do we really have time for love?

Could you ~ and would you ~ really turn your world upside down for love? I'd like to think I would, but finding someone who is willing to do that too is the hard part!

So, does anyone have a blueprint they're willing to share? What would you do to make room in your life, and time for, love?

GREAT taste in football teams...and a genuine person to boot!

Awww...thanks John! Is my Chastity Belt showing? Dang thing is always riding up!!

To the OP (Smiles)...my compliments on the topic and having the desire ~ and heart ~ to make this world a better place.

I'll never forget it...we were walking down the street one evening, holding hands, when we passed an outdoor cafe that had music playing. He swept me in his arms and we danced; after twirling me around he was behind me, then pushed my hair to the side and placed a long, lingering kiss on the base of my neck.

It was the first, and last time, I ever "swooned."

I look forward to feeling that again some day....

JohnSmithToo....seems to have a lovely, poetic soul.

I have given money in the past, but prefer to buy them dinner at a nearby diner or something like that.

We have a program to end homelessness in Denver that is actually discouraging people to give to panhandlers in an effort to drive them to shelters where they can get the services they truly need, be it medical, mental health, legal or counseling/rehab. It's hard to say no in the short run, but in the long run the plan is to provide sustainitive assistance that will really make a difference, and weed out the scammers!

An interesting side note is that charitiable giving to the shelters has increased, helping to meet the needs. Things won't change overnight but we are hopeful...and want to give them hope as well.

Based on my experience, I would have to say that if trust and honesty are "omitted" in the relationship, you'll have all the privacy you want before long.

Trust the relationship and just talk to her. If you aren't comfortable doing that at this stage of the game you may want to re-examine the entire situation. Those are pretty important corner-stones in a relationship.

Well said, S1owhand.

Hmmmmmmmmmm....do I have to pay taxes on that?!?!