I think that problems with communication are universal to both genders.

It's as much of a problem with expression as it is a problem with listening for both men and women. If any of you need help in your relationship with communication there are tons of very helpful exercises you can do with your partner that can improve listening skills, perception, and expression.

Man just do what you do and when somebody that does the same comes along then you'll be all set. No need to worry about what you can change to "fix" the problem because there is no problem to fix. You just have to be patient.

The worst thing you can do is change who you are and your values just to find someone because in the end it won't work out. You will still be the same person just acting and when the other person finds out then that's it for the relationship. Be yourself and you will find someone that you can have a relationship based off of honesty because you will have nothing to hide.