When I hit whos online now, how can I get it to show the women only?

Ok I go to mutual match than I click on who said yes to me at the bottom of the page. It then shows alot of people. But, when I click on any one of them and send them a long or short message, the computer states after the fact that the user has deleted their profile and this happens with every person I try to leave a message for. If they deleted there profile then why not A. let people know that before they begin to write long messages, and B. not have them up in the first place if they are not in the system anymore! It wastes time. And Its messed up that every single message I wrote to people went to deleted profiles. What the hell! Can someone please help explain this to me. Its like ordering food at a restaurant, only to find out after that it was closed down. Someone please fix this. !

Hey it was a error, and now its resolved. thanks.

Hey gang I appreciate your help! Thank u...But I tried everything and in edit photos there is no option to make a picture your main picture. I tried clicking on the pictures and nothing happens. This is the only site I see has this issue. And if you upload the wrong picture, you can't delete it. Like what the hell?

I have tried to add my picture to the upload photo picture box and I can't seem to find a way to do that nor can I seem to delete my pictures that I don't want posted. Please somebody help me with this! Its very ridiculous I don't see a way to do that because it says to edit photo, but you can only add your picture and not erase nor add it where others will see it in the upload photo box. What gives?