It true because now a days every1 in a hurry. They watch these fake reality tv show and teach the youg get what you can for yourself. It is also true that the one guy said ppl want what they want for reason. Ppl get tired of getting dump on so they say just gonna get it no relationship it's easier for them. For the ones who want love it takes time you both have to be honest understanding have patience and learn to accept each other for who they are not what you can make them be. Last part to let your guard down be vulnerable you can have love but can't rush I meet some women who fall in love to quick you can do that. That's why it's called falling in love let it happen let yourself fall ok