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Is Love A Need Or A Desire?
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 Is love a need or a desire?
Love as in ... gotta have the sex with it love? Or love in general -- my cat loves me and I'm surviving just fine. Now desire does not equal love -- now you're talking LUST, um-hmm. 
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Neither boyfriend was honest. I posted a profile and spoke to one of them as a stranger ... he pretty much stated he was free. you pretended to be someone you were not, in order to catch him in a lie? you're playing just as dirty as he, in my opinion. And that is exactly what I felt when I did it too. I was off that site in a flash and haven't been back. It's a year later now and I am dipping my toe back into the internet waters ... I guess I wanted an opinion of if I had been too uptight in the past. Based on the answers, moving on was best. |
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"as if they were single" is the part with which i'd have an issue. my boyfriend and i both have profiles here and i'm sure that he has the occasional conversation with other people (as do i). however, if he were insinuating, or stating, that he were single, that'd sure bother me, as i'm sure it would him too if it were in reverse. Neither boyfriend was honest. I posted a profile and spoke to one of them as a stranger ... he pretty much stated he was free. |
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That part bothered me also. I know of married couples that have profiles up but clearly state they are taken. Surely they might flirt a bit ...
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To clarify: I ended two relationships because of it. And I wonder about entering into another and having it happen again. Perhaps I have been too paranoid about it in the past?
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It seems internet social sites have created a conundrum ... if you are in a relationship (both people love each other), is it acceptable that one or both have profiles up somewhere to chat with other people as if they were single? Is it harmless?
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