All very good advice... I make these post not so much about me[b/] but just to get people talking about.. certain life situations
It's sometimes nice to give people a place to vent to talk about experiences they've had in their lives.. to share.. stories and advice... and hey!!! it's better than just playing on the game boards..wink.

Just quoting to make my point that some might be blind to..

I believe you previously stated on another thread that you get to see your children regularly. YOu should count small blessings. Many divorced people never see their children again. Take your mind off of yourself and try some of the suggestions that people have given you. We also have suffered divorces, deaths, being widowed, or abused, etc. etc. etc. It is up to the person to pull themselves Up again and become the best person you can be. No one is saying you don't feel hurt or lonely. We all know what that feels like, but living in the past only puts you deeper into a dark place. Think of your children... how do you appear to them? they are important. Even if there's a bit of pretend, when you are with them you need to be cheerful, make their lives the best possible. PLEASE go back to your threads and read them and read this one from top to bottom. People ARE trying to be helpful.