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jcindaville Joined Tue 10/13/09 Posts: 4	Wed 10/28/09 01:34 PM Topic: are there any decent guys who dont want the skinny bimbo?
I know i am working on it, lost 42 lbs, got a tat, and go tanning twice a week and hit the gym every chance i get. You want oppurtunity, go get it, it wont be knocking on your door while you eat another bowl of ice cream. Well..here's a couple of thoughts for you. While I can appreciate the fact that you have certain " preferences " in what you find attractive in the opposite sex...berating them with phrases like " back away from the buffet " aren't really going to help you make a good impression. Another thing you should think about...you say that you go " tanning " twice a week. Ever heard of Melanoma?? Check into it. Those trips to the tanning joint won't seem quite as " attractive " then. Versa tan is sunless my friend, so I wont be worrying with the melanoma. As far as impressions go, I dont really worry to much about that with a complete stranger that I have no intentions on meeting. She asked a question looking for input, I provided what I think, nothing more, nothing less. And according to the person posting this thread, what I find attractive is apparently what most men find attractive. Tough love is sometimes the best medicine for whiners wondering why no one wants them.

jcindaville Joined Tue 10/13/09 Posts: 4	Tue 10/27/09 01:19 PM Topic: I'm New on Here...Rate Mine
If i lived in Texas and was 5-10 years older i would be quite happy to go out with you. Nice profile, good pictures, guys get to see a lot of you and not just a head shot. You have a drink in hand so we know your not a prude. I like to see women smile in there pictures, I see a lot of women not smiling and it always makes me think " must be a man hater" some dude **** on her and now I got to pay for that. lol GL

jcindaville Joined Tue 10/13/09 Posts: 4	Tue 10/27/09 01:11 PM Topic: crap or not?
You dont look heavy, average says 20-30 lbs overweight. If you are not overweight put slender. Post pictures that show your whole body, so guys will know if you are heavy or not. Guys are visual, nothing like getting to the point of meeting a woman that you have been conversing with over the net and phone and at your initial meeting with her you realize from the neck down she is humongous. Might save you some of your valuable time by posting current pics with at least one full body shot. GL

jcindaville Joined Tue 10/13/09 Posts: 4	Tue 10/27/09 01:04 PM Topic: are there any decent guys who dont want the skinny bimbo?
To be honest, if you only are carrying 30 lbs of extra weight I wouldnt have a problem. But many women are carrying 50-70 extra pounds, thats not sexy to me. I have to be attracted to a woman, she doesnt have to be a beauty queen at all, but for the love of goodness back away from the table and hit the gym. Everyone says dont change, be yourself, well if yourself was working you wouldnt be here, so i would get busy on making some changes to attract the opposite sex. I know i am working on it, lost 42 lbs, got a tat, and go tanning twice a week and hit the gym every chance i get. You want oppurtunity, go get it, it wont be knocking on your door while you eat another bowl of ice cream. JMO Might sound mean, but everyone reading this knows I am right.