Haven't figured that one out myself, maybe boredom, loneliness, wanted to see what he was really like??? Really not sure. But I gave him enough rope and he has hung himself this time.

Sometimes I wondered....

The last one was even better, told me he had just found out he was "sick, very sick, and didn't want to burden me, so isn't talking to me anymore, is going to be alone the rest of his life, and I need a healthy man in my life, etc." yet the lying weasel is online talking to women for hours every day. I swear, they sure do crawl out from under the rocks, don't they????

Haven't shot a gun in a long time, but I bet I could hit the broad side of a truck, even when it was moving.

True, you don't know his side. I just know he was getting
more and more controlling. I work a 2nd job, typing at home at
night. And at times he would call when I was working, I would
tell him I was working and had to get the work done and he would
get mad when I tried to hang the phone up, that kind of thing.
One night he kept me on the phone for over an hour when I needed to
be typing because every time I tried to hang up, he got angry, and
I stayed on the phone just to keep him from getting more angry, stupid, I know. That is when I knew I was on a dead-end with this guy and he was manipulating and controlling. The name calling
was the breaker though.

Yeah, Gyps, haven't figured out how to get the "kick me" sign
off my back yet, but I am working on it.

Thanks for your help, girl.

Thanks anyways, but where I live, if I were to call 911 - would have someone here in a matter of a few minutes, literally. Hmmmm, his big rig would make good target practice though, ya think???

I had already decided to ditch him, just amazed at the nerve of him to even approach me after the way he has treated me.

My phone is still listed under my dad's name (he died last November) so if he tries to find me through a phone number trace it will come up under his name, not mine, so think that would confuse him, maybe make him think I changed my number. He goes up I-5 which is about 3 hours away from where I live. Will block him tomorrow, my friend knows how to do it on Yahoo. Thanks for all the advice.

I would still run it by the pharmacist to make sure they are not going to go against some prescription drug they are taking.

I had stomach surgery about 1-1/2 years ago so have malabsorption problems now and take mega doses of vitamins, I take about 2000 mg of calcium, and 2 multivitamins on top of several other individuals every day now. Every person's body is different.

Vitamin K is also in dark green veggies, i.e., spinach, kale, romaine lettuce, so people on Coumadin/warfarin need to be careful with eating large amounts of them as it will affect their blood thinning too.

Suspect you are right, there is something not right about him. He switches personalities like a light switch.

We were talking on the phone, got a 6:30 a.m. call last Friday a.m., he knows it is my day off, no message, I did a reverse trace on the number, came up to a cell phone in Texas, which is the state he is from, so who knows.

Just amazes me how someone can go from semi-normal to psycho so fast and then just pretend nothing has happened again. He is a truckdriver, so makes me a little nervous, he comes through my state weekly.

This idiot I have been (was)talking to (well off and on) for maybe 4-5 months, I swear is schizo. He got mad at me maybe 2-3 months ago, called me a "wh*re" and a "loser." Fine, he can stay lost. Then a couple of weeks later he wants to talk again, say what??? So, of course, I am still ticked over the name calling but I hold off saying much, he doesn't apologize, so then I tell him how I don't appreciate the name calling. Then he tells me to "F-off." Disappears for another couple of weeks or so. In the meantime, he sends me little nasty grams with links to dirty picture sites. When I tell him to stop, he claims innocence, of course.

Now, today, he contacts me with "how is it going?" I swear, this guy must be just plain unbalanced.

Have you ever run into someone like this?? He is totally controlling and jealous, and to act this way??? And, an obvious liar too over the nasty grams he sends, etc.

I also see that the "Great Northwest" are listed as state #2 and #3 on the list -- could be saying "Go West, Lex, Go West" -- . We have the Pacific Ocean, beautiful beaches, mild weather, the Mariners and the Seahawks (okay, not much to brag about there), the Space Needle, now that is cool, Canada is right next door and, of course, we have GYPSY AND PURPLE CAT FOR NEIGHBORS!!!!!!

And orcas swim off our shores routinely for us to see them too!!!!

Now what more could you want. Ummmm, oh yeah, single girls, we have them too!!!!!!!

Hope you have a great birthday.

I thought of that, but in the past I worked in a mental health clinic, and I have heard of cases like this, so don't know if it was a joke, but if it was, it certainly was a sick one.

Good grief, Lex, what a family they were??? That is so scary!!

I had to worry about my ex trying to kill me, threatened it all the time, but he probably wasn't smart enough to know how to hire anyone, plus IT would have cut into his drinking money to do that.

Good information Winx, that is why people should always talk to their doctor or pharmacist as they know what meds they are already on and what will and won't mix with them.

Thanks but he is outside, this was from about 3 a.m. this morning, was responding to some of the people in it. Normally leave them alone, especially "daddy long legs" -- but this was a huge sucker and chose to hang directly over the bed for a good hour, so had to deal with him.

Don't tell me you are wearing my "kick me" sign too??