I guessed this labour day and white clothes is a USA thing, I was puzzled till I googled a bit.

Yep, its working now. Thanks.

For me small talk is the stuff you might talk about with strangers at a bus stop or something.

"Crappy weather huh?.." Etc.

But I didn't think thats what the origional poster was on about. So yeah, usually I hate all conversations that have been started 'because we should have a conversation' :P

I've found that some people think that in order to be in a relationship you have to have a long chat every day.

For example sat&sun spend all day together. Monday, go to work, do nothing interesting at all at work. Monday night get called up and be expected to come up with several hours of interesting conversation for no reason other than 'its nice to talk'.

If I don't have enough crap to talk about every night then its not a personal slight, i'm probably tired and had no particular inspiration. I've got no problem with people calling me and talking :) its when I have to come up with my own stuff :P

Problem with the premium menu, it tells me it will uto renew on a date that is in the past (the date I signed up in fact).

I do not wan't my membership to auto-renew, infact my paypal account probably won't work anymore anyway but I don't want to lose my days so I need to know when to stop it.


"You are currently a paid premium member on Mingle2. You have 91 days of premium membership left.

Your current premium membership will auto-renew on October 15, 2009. To prevent this auto-renewal, you may cancel your premium membership, but you will forfeit all your unused days of premium membership.

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