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God is NOT a loving god.
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John 9:1-3 "1 And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth.2 And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?3 Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him." Thanks Yahweh! You're a real pal.You couldn't think of some other way to demonstrate your greatness? He demonstrated his greatness a few verses down if you kept reading. John 9 5 As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world. 6 When he had thus spoken, he spat on the ground, and made clay of the spittle, and he anointed the eyes of the blind man with the clay, 7 And said unto him, Go, wash in the pool of Siloam, (which is by interpretation, Sent.) He went his way therefore, and washed, and came seeing. Yes, I knew that. But, in keeping with the theme of the thread, I don't think it was all that loving for God to cause, or at least allow, a man to suffer with blindness from birth, just so he could send Jesus down here and cure the guy for his own exaltation. |
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Hmm, I wonder if your religion will ever revamp the bible with modern day English? At least modern day grammar. I have a decent vocab and above average grammar and the bulk of the bible quotes I see look like pure gibberish. I mean apart from lacking meaning in the first place because they come from an age old children's storybook the grammar is terrible and many of the words used have not been spoken in common tongue for as long as I've been around and I'm 36. Well, Lazarus...that's a very deep subject that you've broached there! There are so many different Bible translations. And, each one has its adherents, claiming that it is the TRUE word of God, or the one that is most faithful to the oldest extant manuscripts, while decrying the others as the work of Satan. It's not surprising, though, if you look at the transliterated passages in an interlinear Bible, one thing that immediately becomes apparent is that translating this book into English is as much an art as a science, due to the vast differences between Hebrew and English, and Greek and English. All of which underscores something I've said many times before: An All-Knowing, All-Wise God, who ostensibly created us, our brains, our system of communication, including all the different languages, would have known that the written word was not the best medium to employ in transmitting his all-important instruction manual to us. Too many opportunities for misunderstandings. And, in keeping with the theme of this thread, it wasn't very loving of God to demand that we follow the rules found in his all-important instruction manual, when he presented said manual in a way in which it was ripe for misunderstanding and misinterpretation. Ya and even the English version is so ancient that it sounds partially foreign to modern day English speakers. It may have even been the same for the original languages at this point. So not only are they having to translate from other languages into English but from a version of those languages that's 2000 years old. On a side note, I love how CowboyGH stopped responding to my posts altogether. Religious people tend to do that when you back them into a corner, they will get into a hyper-defensive state and revert to an 'I'm right and you're wrong' mentality. He's only continuing the arguement with you because you're playing into his realm of expertise with the bible quotes, he could go back and forth with you all day with that stuff. Good points about the languages, Lazarus. You are absolutely correct about the way the KJV, with its archaic English, sounds strange to our modern ears, even though it is English. Here's a good example: Genesis 25:29 "29 And Jacob sod pottage: and Esau came from the field, and he was faint:" Jacob "sod pottage."(?!) At first blush, it sounds like Jacob was engaged in some kind of kinky culinary depravity that's probably illegal in some states, but it really just means that he was boiling soup. Well, I see that Cowboy replied to you while I was replying to him, so we'll see where the conversation goes next. There's no doubt that you are correct that he and I could debate Bible stuff endlessly if we chose to. |
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First off, why the need for an "old" covenant, and a "new" covenant. I reject the whole idea. Why? Because, once again, I (The atheist.) give All-Knowing, All-Wise God credit for being just that. In other words, I trust that he would have had the wisdom and foresight (Especially since he can see into the future and all.) to come up with the right solution, i.e. the "new" covenant, in the first place, rather than piddle-assing around for thousands of years with a defective system. That is why the first covenant prophesied it's ending and the coming a'new. It wasn't a "change", it was a furthering progress. Why he chose specifically too do two different covenants as he did I personally don't know as I'm not God, you would have to ask him when you get the chance. So, the first covenant "prophesied it's ending" and the coming of a new? Apparently it realized that it was a barbaric and primitive covenant unworthy of an All-Wise God. I can't see how you can say that it wasn't a change, though, for it obviously was. A big change. Heck,the very fact that the New Covenant is called the NEW Covenant makes it pretty clear that it is distinct from the old one. For instance, look at how Jeremiah refers to it: Jeremiah 31:31-34 "31 Behold, the days come, saith the Lord, that I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel, and with the house of Judah:32 Not according to the covenant that I made with their fathers in the day that I took them by the hand to bring them out of the land of Egypt; which my covenant they brake, although I was an husband unto them, saith the Lord:33 But this shall be the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel; After those days, saith the Lord, I will put my law in their inward parts, and write it in their hearts; and will be their God, and they shall be my people.34 And they shall teach no more every man his neighbour, and every man his brother, saying, Know the Lord: for they shall all know me, from the least of them unto the greatest of them, saith the Lord: for I will forgive their iniquity, and I will remember their sin no more." Yahweh specifically mentions one change right there; that his laws would now be inscribed in hearts, instead of on stone. Then there was the big issue over a little tissue; circumcision. Of course, right after you said that it wasn't a change, you said that God used two different covenants, which sure sounds to me like there was a change. By the way, I understand that you can't really know why Yahweh would choose to employ a defective system for over a thousand years, then initiate its new and improved replacement, instead of initiating the better system right off the bat. I just ask the question to inspire thought. The point is that an All-Knowing and All-Wise God shouldn't do that. I give him more credit than that. Second, you claim that anyone with a deformity is that way because of sin, and that that was why they were rejected for the priestly duties in question. I claimed no such thing. It sure looks to me like you did: Remember, people in the Old Covenant were judged on Earth for their sins. Thus Jesus referencing a multitude of different deformities or irregularities in a person eg., brokenfooted, or brokenhanded,20 Or crookbackt, or a dwarf, or that hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken;21 No man that hath a blemish of the seed of Aaron the priest shall come nigh to offer the offerings of the Lord made by fire. These types of people in reference are that way because of their sins, thus they are "defiled". And read even further, these "rules" were not "standard". They were specific to a specific group for a specific reason. This specific bit of information from the scriptures that was referenced spoke of such, but never insinuated that was the case for ALL "deformities" to this day. Okay. I agree that it wasn't stated that this applied to all deformities for all time. And, I will take this opportunity to modify something I said earlier. I said that Jesus stated that deformities were the result of sin. In truth, he didn't state it outright in the instance I had in mind; he implied it. However, in another instance, his disciples directly stated it, and he corrected them. Ironically enough, his statement in that instance provides yet another example of God not being a loving god! John 9:1-3 "1 And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth.2 And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?3 Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him." Thanks Yahweh! You're a real pal.You couldn't think of some other way to demonstrate your greatness? Again is why I even specifically referenced in the old covenant people were judged for this sins on Earth and it even carried into multiple generations at times depending on the situation and God's judgement at that time. Okay. Well, it is God's judgement that I am criticizing. According to that, even the priests who were Tom Selleck look-a-likes were sinners, too. Yet, they were Yahweh-approved. Well, I guess someone had to carry out the services, and Yahweh wanted only beautiful people doing it. Jumping back and forth between old testament "covenant" and new testament "covenant" won't bring any clear information, as again they are two entirely different covenant "sets of laws" and punishment was different in the old covenant as it is now. I quoted Romans 3:23 merely to demonstrate that, according to "God's Word," everyone sins. And, presumably, everyone always had. Including the aforementioned beautiful priests. But, if you want OT verses that also say that everyone sins, here you go: 1 Kings 8:46 "46 If they sin against thee, (for there is no man that sinneth not,) and thou be angry with them, and deliver them to the enemy, so that they carry them away captives unto the land of the enemy, far or near;" Ecclesiastes 7:20 "20 For there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not." So, again, taking the story at face-value, even the Yahweh-approved studly priests were sinners. Therefore, it was unloving of God to discriminate against the disabled sinners. |
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Hmm, I wonder if your religion will ever revamp the bible with modern day English? At least modern day grammar. I have a decent vocab and above average grammar and the bulk of the bible quotes I see look like pure gibberish. I mean apart from lacking meaning in the first place because they come from an age old children's storybook the grammar is terrible and many of the words used have not been spoken in common tongue for as long as I've been around and I'm 36. Well, Lazarus...that's a very deep subject that you've broached there! There are so many different Bible translations. And, each one has its adherents, claiming that it is the TRUE word of God, or the one that is most faithful to the oldest extant manuscripts, while decrying the others as the work of Satan. It's not surprising, though, if you look at the transliterated passages in an interlinear Bible, one thing that immediately becomes apparent is that translating this book into English is as much an art as a science, due to the vast differences between Hebrew and English, and Greek and English. All of which underscores something I've said many times before: An All-Knowing, All-Wise God, who ostensibly created us, our brains, our system of communication, including all the different languages, would have known that the written word was not the best medium to employ in transmitting his all-important instruction manual to us. Too many opportunities for misunderstandings. And, in keeping with the theme of this thread, it wasn't very loving of God to demand that we follow the rules found in his all-important instruction manual, when he presented said manual in a way in which it was ripe for misunderstanding and misinterpretation. |
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And, proving once again that God is NOT a loving god: Leviticus 21:17-21 "17 Speak unto Aaron, saying, Whosoever he be of thy seed in their generations that hath any blemish, let him not approach to offer the bread of his God.18 For whatsoever man he be that hath a blemish, he shall not approach: a blind man, or a lame, or he that hath a flat nose, or any thing superfluous,19 Or a man that is brokenfooted, or brokenhanded,20 Or crookbackt, or a dwarf, or that hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken;21 No man that hath a blemish of the seed of Aaron the priest shall come nigh to offer the offerings of the Lord made by fire: he hath a blemish; he shall not come nigh to offer the bread of his God." On top of everything else, God discriminates against disabled people. Jeez, Yahweh! That's not very PC. You probably didn't even have a wheelchair ramp at the tabernacle, did you? You're lucky there was no Jews with Disabilities Act on the books. For crying out loud, haven't these poor people suffered enough already without you rejecting them? Especially the guy with crushed balls! Try not taking things out of context. Leviticus 21 1 And the Lord said unto Moses, Speak unto the priests the sons of Aaron, and say unto them, There shall none be defiled for the dead among his people: Remember, people in the Old Covenant were judged on Earth for their sins. Thus Jesus referencing a multitude of different deformities or irregularities in a person eg., brokenfooted, or brokenhanded,20 Or crookbackt, or a dwarf, or that hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken;21 No man that hath a blemish of the seed of Aaron the priest shall come nigh to offer the offerings of the Lord made by fire. These types of people in reference are that way because of their sins, thus they are "defiled". And read even further, these "rules" were not "standard". They were specific to a specific group for a specific reason. 21 No man that hath a blemish of the seed of Aaron the priest shall come nigh to offer the offerings of the Lord made by fire: he hath a blemish; he shall not come nigh to offer the bread of his God. 23 Only he shall not go in unto the vail, nor come nigh unto the altar, because he hath a blemish; that he profane not my sanctuaries: for I the Lord do sanctify them. First off, why the need for an "old" covenant, and a "new" covenant. I reject the whole idea. Why? Because, once again, I (The atheist.) give All-Knowing, All-Wise God credit for being just that. In other words, I trust that he would have had the wisdom and foresight (Especially since he can see into the future and all.) to come up with the right solution, i.e. the "new" covenant, in the first place, rather than piddle-assing around for thousands of years with a defective system. Second, you claim that anyone with a deformity is that way because of sin, and that that was why they were rejected for the priestly duties in question. I realize that you have to believe this, since the Jesus character is depicted as saying that, but really... That's disgusting, to be frank.Assuming that any of this stuff actually happened, I'm sure that there were many people with deformities who would have been very sincere and dedicated in carrying out these duties. Unlike Eli's studly sons, who were approved to be priests, yet abused their positions by banging lots of women who showed up at the Tabernacle. (2 Samuel 2:22) That said, I'll play along... Romans 3:23 "23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" According to that, even the priests who were Tom Selleck look-a-likes were sinners, too. Yet, they were Yahweh-approved. Well, I guess someone had to carry out the services, and Yahweh wanted only beautiful people doing it. I still say that it wasn't very loving of him. |
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God exists. Get used to it Perhaps you could share your evidence for that assertion on one of the other threads dealing with that question. There is plenty of evidence that God exists. You simply choose to close your eyes to them. So I simply choose to say: God exists. Get used to it. Sorry, Sir, but you are incorrect. I do not choose to close my eyes to the evidence of God's existence. On the contrary, I have examined the evidence my whole life. I spent the first forty years of my life as a Christian. I spent many a year as an apologist, so I know well the position you are in as regards trying to defend the indefensible. At this point in my life, I simply choose to examine any evidence I see on the subject with logic and common sense. And congrats for cleaning the crap out of your eyes and joining us in the real world, lol... But I'm still not sure why people are using quotes from the bible to argue against religion/god. I mean the only thing I have to say at this point is, the bible is BS and there is no other piece of 'evidence' that can be logically and conclusively linked to the existence of a higher being. God is just another word for things that we have yet to explain. Just a few hundred years ago people still thought the earth was flat, we are still an ignorant race of people. We only deem ourselves as intellectuals because we're the smartest that we know of in existence. Humans have been around in our current form for approx. 200,000 years and only 6000 years ago civilization as we know it began so 97% of the existence of our race has been wasted. We finally get smart and start using nuclear bombs to wipe each other out, this is what we choose to do with our intellect. There's no way an all powerful being made us unless it was to laugh at how incredibly stupid we are. Given a few hundred more years we might start to resemble something that could be loosely compared to intelligent but that's only if we don't kill each other off first or blow through our natural resources (due to our exponential reproduction) before we can advance enough to venture into deep space. Thanks, Lazarus. It's great to be here! Everything makes so much better sense now. I agree with you on everything you said, and I would add that, just like belief in ancient superstitions, even the belief in a flat Earth has survived. I recently encountered a fellow who argued with me about the subject. But, like you said, hopefully at some future point we will evolve beyond such things. I can only speak for myself obviously, but I can tell you that the reason I quote the Bible in these debates is because I know that though I don't believe that it is anything other than the product of man, to the apologists it is the word of God. (And yet, many of these same apologists aren't all that familiar with what it actually says!) So, I use it as evidence. Showing the horrible stuff in it and the contradictions and inconsistencies can be useful when dealing with someone who will only accept what the Bible says. |
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And, proving once again that God is NOT a loving god:
Leviticus 21:17-21 "17 Speak unto Aaron, saying, Whosoever he be of thy seed in their generations that hath any blemish, let him not approach to offer the bread of his God.18 For whatsoever man he be that hath a blemish, he shall not approach: a blind man, or a lame, or he that hath a flat nose, or any thing superfluous,19 Or a man that is brokenfooted, or brokenhanded,20 Or crookbackt, or a dwarf, or that hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken;21 No man that hath a blemish of the seed of Aaron the priest shall come nigh to offer the offerings of the Lord made by fire: he hath a blemish; he shall not come nigh to offer the bread of his God." On top of everything else, God discriminates against disabled people. Jeez, Yahweh! That's not very PC. You probably didn't even have a wheelchair ramp at the tabernacle, did you? You're lucky there was no Jews with Disabilities Act on the books. For crying out loud, haven't these poor people suffered enough already without you rejecting them? Especially the guy with crushed balls! |
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Have you any thoughts on the "42 little bags of Purina Bear Chow" story?
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DavidM616
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There are many Bible passages that depict Yahweh as instructing humans to treat animals kindly (Even though he also required scads of animal sacrifice. D.I.D. Yahweh strikes again!), so it isn't as cut-and-dry as you claim. For, if animals are just "for our use," there would have been no need for Yahweh to say things like this The sacrifices were to pay for mankind's faults and mistakes. Yes he's told us to be loving to the beasts of the world, but allowed the sacrifice of animals in terms of allowing them to give up something they needed to "show" their remorse for their actions. There wasn't grocery stores and such then, food was more scarce there then it is now. The sacrifices in themselves never brought him pleasure though. Isaiah 1:11 11 To what purpose is the multitude of your sacrifices unto me? saith the Lord: I am full of the burnt offerings of rams, and the fat of fed beasts; and I delight not in the blood of bullocks, or of lambs, or of he goats. Are you sure it never brought him pleasure? Numbers 18:17 "17 But the firstling of a cow, or the firstling of a sheep, or the firstling of a goat, thou shalt not redeem; they are holy: thou shalt sprinkle their blood upon the altar, and shalt burn their fat for an offering made by fire, for a sweet savour unto the Lord." That aside, it sure seems to me that an All-Knowing, All-Wise god wouldn't have "suffered" through over a thousand years of animal sacrifices, that he didn't want, instead of getting to the propitiatory sacrifice of his son (A ridiculous paradigm in itself, as I explained earlier.) a whole lot sooner. Jonah 4:11 "11 And should not I spare Nineveh, that great city, wherein are more than sixscore thousand persons that cannot discern between their right hand and their left hand; and also much cattle?" Within the context of forgiving the Ninevites' sins, which is what Yahweh and Jonah are here discussing, the cattle should not have even been a consideration, according to your assertion above. I do not understand your point here, please elaborate. Those cattle or reference of cattle were no where near any reference towards sacrifice. Again, there weren't grocery stores and such, the reference of the cattle here was purely along those lines explaining how much they had. Not specifically again anything in reference of sacrificial or anything, please do elaborate on the intentions with this verse. I wasn't referring to the sacrificial value of the animals. Recall that my original assertion was that it was unloving of God to drown a bunch of animals because he was pissed at some humans. To which you replied, in essence, that the animals didn't matter because they are just soulless commodities for us. I started off by pointing out that Yahweh at times told his drones to show compassion for the animals, and that if the animals were really just commodities, I don't think he would have bothered to do that. It wouldn't have mattered, anyway. I quoted the verse in Jonah because the conversation between Yahweh and Jonah was about compassion and forgiveness. And, Yahweh rhetorically asked Jonah, in essence, "Hey, come on, Jonah...shouldn't I spare those poor dolts? And the animals, too?" To me, in that passage, Yahweh was showing compassion to the animals, too. Notice the parallel? The human heart hadn't changed. Humans were still "evil" according to Yahweh. So, apparently Yahweh brought the flood specifically to "off" the unruly humans who were infesting the place at that time. Otherwise, one must conclude that he went to all the trouble of bringing the flood for nothing, as he knew that the whole process would just begin again, anyway. That is exactly why he did the flood... didn't know there was confusion about that. Also remember/keep in mind the flood happened in old testament times, old covenant times, where people were judged on Earth and paid for their sins on Earth. Thus the world had become over ruly with sinful actions, therefore God judged the whole world as sinful and carried out his judgement. And again the animals don't have any baring in that... still don't see your point. Animals are here for our usage, either food chain wise, pollinating flowers, our food, transportation, protection, or whatever may be the case at hand. They do not have souls, they will not join us in Heaven, or be thrown into the lake of fire. Well...I thought that there was some confusion about that since you said earlier- It wasn't just about "offing" a bunch of unruly humans. It was 1. Prophesied it would happen when certain factors met, 2. It don't suspect it was just about judging the unruly, as it also changed the fact of the world. So therefore brought forth more positive then negative. Now, it sounds like you're agreeing with me that "offing" some unruly humans was- exactly why he did the flood Oh, well. We can debate the potential theological nuances of the story until the worthless, good-for-nothing-but-food-or-sacrificing cows come home, but I still maintain that it was unloving of Yahweh to needlessly kill a bunch of animals in the flood because, as I said before: Animals feel pain. Animals show fear. Animals suffer. Animals did not cause all the wickedness that Yahweh was in a snit about in the story. Humans, and "sons of God," did. |
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"Deflection" Ha Haaaa! For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature--have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuses. Now deflect that one. You know, you just did EXACTLY what Lazarus predicted you would do. You quoted the Bible! Romans 1:20 "20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:" (*Gasp!*) Lazarus must be a prophet! Ya, lol, then topped it off with an "I'm right and you're wrong because, reasons!". At this point I'm not sure if he's actually religious or just trolling. You never know! How about it, Rooster? Are you legit, or trolling? Also...follow up question...since you didn't attribute that quote to the Bible yourself, were you trying to pass those words off as your own? Or, did you just not feel like mentioning that it was a Bible quote? |
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God exists. Get used to it Perhaps you could share your evidence for that assertion on one of the other threads dealing with that question. There is plenty of evidence that God exists. You simply choose to close your eyes to them. So I simply choose to say: God exists. Get used to it. Sorry, Sir, but you are incorrect. I do not choose to close my eyes to the evidence of God's existence. On the contrary, I have examined the evidence my whole life. I spent the first forty years of my life as a Christian. I spent many a year as an apologist, so I know well the position you are in as regards trying to defend the indefensible. At this point in my life, I simply choose to examine any evidence I see on the subject with logic and common sense. |
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More semantics. Trying to muddy the water. I know from reading your posts that you possess the intelligence to grasp the point of my Ra illustration. To truly be honest, don't know how to exceptionally take this post... nor do I know the "ra illustration" reference... if it was a previous reference in the thread, I apologize for my memory. All right, then. I'll take your word for it. I will now explain. In your previous post, you quoted part of one of my statements where I said: "Again, if I was trying to sell you on worshiping Ra..." and you replied, "Who's "selling" anything? We're here for the discussions at hand. Not trying to convert you or make you believe my friend. Just expressing details/information(s) on the discussion at hand." I suppose it's my fault for wording it that way, but that wasn't even the point. I know that you're not trying to convert me, any more than I'm trying to "unconvert" you. We are just having a discussion. I realize that. Allow me to rephrase the Ra illustration, and hopefully the point will now be clear: If we were debating the historical accuracy of the stories about Ra, and I was arguing in favor of accepting these stories as being factual based on flimsy evidence, spin, and special pleading like you have at times throughout our discussion thus far, you would call me on it. You would examine the evidence that I put forward with logic and common sense, because you wouldn't be biased in favor of the Ra stories. Quite the opposite, actually. And, this would be true regardless of which deity (Other than Jesus and Yahweh, of course.) we were discussing. I just picked Ra at random. While I am not trying to talk you out of your belief, I would hope that at some point you would at least realize how weak the evidence you have offered throughout this debate really is. That's what I've been demonstrating. |
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More semantics. Trying to muddy the water. I know from reading your posts that you possess the intelligence to grasp the point of my Ra illustration.
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"Deflection" Ha Haaaa! For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature--have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuses. Now deflect that one. You know, you just did EXACTLY what Lazarus predicted you would do. You quoted the Bible! Romans 1:20 "20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:" (*Gasp!*) Lazarus must be a prophet! |
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It wasn't very loving of God to drown all the animals who didn't make it onto the floating shoebox with Noah & Company just because he wanted to "off" a bunch of unruly humans. All he had to do was crank up his patented Ananias and Sapphira Death Beam (Acts 5:1-11.) and take all the miscreants out like a Heavenly sniper. For that matter, he could also have cranked up the intensity on the ASDB and fried them completely. No muss, no fuss, and no bloated carcasses littering the landscape for Noah and Company to have to clean up. ("Damn, Shem. Look at the size of those elephants. It's going to take us a month to dig a big enough hole for them. And they're really starting to smell, too!") It wasn't very loving of God to drown all the animals who didn't make it onto the floating shoebox with Noah & Company just because he wanted to "off" a bunch of unruly humans. Animals/beasts don't have "souls". They are for our use. Either direct use, or in the long run bee's pollinating, riding horses, ect. It wasn't just about "offing" a bunch of unruly humans. It was 1. Prophesied it would happen when certain factors met, 2. It don't suspect it was just about judging the unruly, as it also changed the fact of the world. So therefore brought forth more positive then negative. There are many Bible passages that depict Yahweh as instructing humans to treat animals kindly (Even though he also required scads of animal sacrifice. D.I.D. Yahweh strikes again!), so it isn't as cut-and-dry as you claim. For, if animals are just "for our use," there would have been no need for Yahweh to say things like this: Jonah 4:11 "11 And should not I spare Nineveh, that great city, wherein are more than sixscore thousand persons that cannot discern between their right hand and their left hand; and also much cattle?" Within the context of forgiving the Ninevites' sins, which is what Yahweh and Jonah are here discussing, the cattle should not have even been a consideration, according to your assertion above. But, all that aside, consider this: Animals feel pain. Animals show fear. Animals suffer. Animals did not cause all the wickedness that Yahweh was in a snit about in the story. Humans, and "sons of God," did. So, regardless of what you might claim animals' purpose is, it was unloving of God to NEEDLESSLY drown all of the animals who didn't get a boarding ticket for the floating shoe-box. As for why Yahweh brought the flood, Genesis says this: Genesis 6:5-7 "5 And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. 6 And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart.7 And the Lord said, I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth; both man, and beast, and the creeping thing, and the fowls of the air; for it repenteth me that I have made them." Sure sounds like he wanted to "off" a bunch of unruly humans to me. Particularly since, after the whole horrid affair was concluded, he said this: Genesis 8:21 "21 And the Lord smelled a sweet savour; and the Lord said in his heart, I will not again curse the ground any more for man's sake; for the imagination of man's heart is evil from his youth; neither will I again smite any more every thing living, as I have done." Notice the parallel? The human heart hadn't changed. Humans were still "evil" according to Yahweh. So, apparently Yahweh brought the flood specifically to "off" the unruly humans who were infesting the place at that time. Otherwise, one must conclude that he went to all the trouble of bringing the flood for nothing, as he knew that the whole process would just begin again, anyway. Furthermore, it is strange to consider that an All-Wise God would do something so monstrous, and then afterwords conclude that it was not a good idea. After all, he said afterwards that he would never do anything like that again. (I.E. "Curse the ground any more for man's sake.") Hey...come to think of it...maybe THAT was when he constructed the Ananias and Sapphira Death Beam! So he wouldn't have to wipe out EVERYTHING again. He could just pick off the ******* humans he didn't like. I may be onto something there... At any rate, in keeping with the whole point of this entire thread, bringing the flood wasn't very loving. |
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God is NOT a loving god.
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It wasn't very loving of God to dispatch two of his Hitbears to maul forty-two kids for acting like kids (Proverbs 22:15) by mocking Elisha:
2 Kings 2:23-24 "23 And he went up from thence unto Bethel: and as he was going up by the way, there came forth little children out of the city, and mocked him, and said unto him, Go up, thou bald head; go up, thou bald head.24 And he turned back, and looked on them, and cursed them in the name of the Lord. And there came forth two she bears out of the wood, and tare forty and two children of them." OUCH! That's gonna' leave a mark! The final score is: Bears-42, Kids-0. Jeez. I guess a time-out, or even a spanking was out of the question. |
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God exists. Get used to it Perhaps you could share your evidence for that assertion on one of the other threads dealing with that question. |
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Mr. Nice? Or Mr Naive?
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I'm a smart cookie! Woohooo!!! Thank you David You're welcome, Peggy! |
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Mr. Nice? Or Mr Naive?
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Why do so many nice guys feel that women should fall in love with them because they are NICE? I have been nice all my life and it never once occurred to me that men should drop to their knees with desire for me because of my "niceness" There are soooooo many other qualities and factors which impact upon our ability to attract or find a suitable partner. Sometimes there are other areas we have to work on , like conversational skills, or grooming, or confidence etc. Sometimes the nice guy "pity party " alone could repel women. Or sometimes it could just be an issue of timing or fate. Some people, despite their attractiveness, or intelligence or kindness, are only able to find their compatible partner later on in life. So my question is this... When nice guys complain about women rejecting them because they are "too nice", do you think their complaint is valid? Or do you think they are naive /clueless about the complexities of love and relationships? I totally agree with your logic here. However, I will throw out something for you to ponder. You asked the question, "Why do so many nice guys feel that women should fall in love with them because they are NICE?" I certainly don't expect women to automatically fall in love with me just because I'm told by them all the time what a "nice guy" I am, but I sure wouldn't complain if some of these same women would at least give me a shot. Particularly given how many women state that that is what they're looking for. (Here's a suggestion: If you haven't done so before, look through some of the profiles on this site and see how often you see that theme repeated.) See my point? Women tell me all the time how nice I am, while stating that they just "can't find a nice guy anywhere." Yet, if I begin to flirt with them, they run away. Granted, I'm NOT much to look at, but still... So, yeah. Not expecting instant love for being nice, just asking for the opportunity to earn the love. Hi DavidM616. With regard to what you said about women articulating that they want a nice guy, it's time that we all realise that people are looking for a lot more qualities than what they bother to state out loud ,because they assume these unspoken things are universally known. Here a few of those unspoken needs. eg. Most women are looking for a man... 1. with a job that allows them to pay their share of the bills and enjoy a few luxuries as well like going out for dinner occasionally or travelling 2. who is above average in bed 3. Who is consistent in action and temperament but not overly predictable (which translates into boring a lot of the time.) 4. who is nice , but capable of being assertive setting boundaries with others when necessary 5. who grooms himself in a way that makes the most of looks ie wearing clothes that match and fit the body no matter what size or height it is, having a hairstyle that flatters the individual, trimming wild facial and nose hair etc . (Im sorry , but presentation matters in the dating world. ) And let's face it , men have their list of things they want, which they seldom state out loud eg a woman with a hot body, who is PHENOMENAL in bed, who doesn't nag, allows them lots of space to hang with their friends etc. Secondly, with regard to your point about women not giving nice guys a chance romantically,it is a fact that some of the "nice guys" with average looks actually seek out more "hot/ glamorous" women out there, and reject the more "average looking " women with great personalities. And that comes down to preference, which every person is entitled to regardless of their looks, age, gender, personality etc. But my point is this. If a "nice guy" with average looks feels entitled to seek out the "hot and glamorous" women out there, and reject the more "average looking " women with great personalities, then why are they so surprised and critical of the "hot/glamorous" women who reject the "nice guy" with average looks in favor of the "hot alpha" male. Is it not the same principle of PREFERENCE at play? And can I make a side note here? I have often hear of "nice" men accusing women of choosing a "hot " jerk over an average looking nice guy , and the characterisation of jerk is based solely on the stereotype that all good looking men are brainless or heartless, which is not always the case. I have met many "hot" men and women who go against that stereotype , and who also happened to be kind, intelligent and talented. So when guys assume that it was only looks the woman was going for, they might be surprised to learn that the woman was also captivated by other qualities eg the man's confidence, assertiveness, lack of clingyness, etc. Im not saying that a nice guy with average looks can't have those qualities. Im just saying that the stereotype of the hot guy being a jerk is just as unfair as the stereotype that the nice guy is incapable of being passionate, spontaneous and assertive. That being said, I appreciate your point that the nice guys are not always given the chance they deserve, but then again. Sometimes nice girls suffer the same fate as well at the hands ofthe nice guys. Hello Peggy. :) I like the way you think. You obviously have a good head on your shoulders. (Where do you live again? Anywhere near Plainfield, Indiana? ) I agree that no one generally rattles off a laundry list of everything he/she is looking for every time the topic is discussed.Certainly there are some presumptions about it. And, as another poster said, we are all basically looking for a very similar set of qualities in a lover, regardless of our gender or sexual orientation. I was just sharing my experience in order to offer you one man's perspective on your question. And, in fact, while we're talking about my experience, I can offer you a personal anecdote that supports some of your statements in your OP: Over the course of my last relationship, my ex told me at different times that I met every one of your bullet points above. Particularly number two. (No brag. Just fact.) And, we got along really well, and had a lot of fun together. Yet, she ended up breaking up with me. When she ended the relationship, she told me: "You're a wonderful guy. You've been nothing but good to me, and I'll always love you as a friend. But...you're just not the ONE. And, I'm not willing to settle for second best." Obviously, I was heartbroken. I was devastated. But, I got it. It's just like you said, there are so many complex factors that go into making a lasting relationship; so many personality traits (For instance.) that must be compatible. And, of course, there has to be that spark. So, yeah, there is a whole lot more to it than just being a "nice guy." Still, even though I get that, it is sometimes befuddling to have a woman tell me that she's looking for a guy who very much sounds like her description of me, yet she won't even give me a chance! ;) But,don't think I'm picking on women here, for I agree with you that men do the same thing. I don't deny that for a minute. I've seen it too many times! I think we can all think of examples of guys we have known who have a female friend that he really likes, maybe even really loves, and she is a really loving, compassionate, Top Notch lady, yet he just can't seem to bring himself to make a commitment to her because he is too busy chasing after every big-boobed blonde bimbo that crosses his field of vision. (*See footnote.) I think that what we are demonstrating here is that all of us, women or men: 1. Want the best that we can get in everything. 2. Don't always use sound judgement, particularly when it comes to relationships. 3. Finding another individual human being, regardless of gender, who is compatible enough with oneself in order to forge a life-long relationship, makes finding the proverbial needle-in-a-haystack stunningly easy by comparison. Again, I like the way you think, and I don't disagree with you. I was just trying to offer at least a partial answer to your question. :-) *Footnote- 1.I'm not saying that all blondes with big boobs are bimbos. (Like you said, many beautiful people are wonderful people.) But, some are. 2. Please forgive my goofy tangent here, but it's just the way my mind works. When I read the phrase "big-boobed blonde bimbo," I immediately think that it sounds like a page out of the Dr. Seuss's ABC Book for Adults. "Big B...Little b. What begins with b? Big-boobed blonde bimbo. B,b,B." Thanks for the affirmation DavidM616 And Im sorry your relationship didn't work out as you had hoped, especially with all the positives you both had going for you. It's really frustrating when that happens I agree with all 3 of your bullet points especially the last one. Finding a mate would be sooooo much easier if we were just able to focus on the compatability factor for building a life-long relationship together. I also have an interesting anecdote that relates to that. I have a smart, kind, talented and gorgeous friend who was in a 2 year relationship with a nice guy, who she cared deeply for, but who she never fell in love with. Even with that being the case, she told me that she was prepared to marry him because she admired his cosistecy and commitment to their relationship which she had bee lacking form previous partners, They eventually ended the relationship because she wanted to start a family as soon as possible as she was in her 30s and worried about her biological clock and he was unwilling to commit to a time frame for doing so. But 3 months later , she met a man who is flawed, but with whom she was captivated in every way, and she tells that the relationship experience is so much more fulfiling with him than with the man she was comfortable and compatible in a number of ways. My point is this. I see nothing wrong with settling for someone who doesn't light that spark in you because the risk of waiting for that person sometimes is that we end up empty handed which is hard for a lot of people. But I am really happy for the people like my friend who hang in there for the person who does light that spark in them and makes them feel hot, warm and LOVED, as they reciprocate equally. Does that mean that her relationship with the new guy will last longer? No it doesn't. But life is short and I wish for everyone that they find a life partner who helps them to make every minute of this short life as happy and as fulfiling as possible. You're welcome, Peggy. Thanks. I wasn't happy about it, either, let me tell you... Again, I agree with everything you said. You are a smart cookie. And I'm glad that things worked out for your friend. |
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Mr. Nice? Or Mr Naive?
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Why do so many nice guys feel that women should fall in love with them because they are NICE? I have been nice all my life and it never once occurred to me that men should drop to their knees with desire for me because of my "niceness" There are soooooo many other qualities and factors which impact upon our ability to attract or find a suitable partner. Sometimes there are other areas we have to work on , like conversational skills, or grooming, or confidence etc. Sometimes the nice guy "pity party " alone could repel women. Or sometimes it could just be an issue of timing or fate. Some people, despite their attractiveness, or intelligence or kindness, are only able to find their compatible partner later on in life. So my question is this... When nice guys complain about women rejecting them because they are "too nice", do you think their complaint is valid? Or do you think they are naive /clueless about the complexities of love and relationships? I totally agree with your logic here. However, I will throw out something for you to ponder. You asked the question, "Why do so many nice guys feel that women should fall in love with them because they are NICE?" I certainly don't expect women to automatically fall in love with me just because I'm told by them all the time what a "nice guy" I am, but I sure wouldn't complain if some of these same women would at least give me a shot. Particularly given how many women state that that is what they're looking for. (Here's a suggestion: If you haven't done so before, look through some of the profiles on this site and see how often you see that theme repeated.) See my point? Women tell me all the time how nice I am, while stating that they just "can't find a nice guy anywhere." Yet, if I begin to flirt with them, they run away. Granted, I'm NOT much to look at, but still... So, yeah. Not expecting instant love for being nice, just asking for the opportunity to earn the love. Hi DavidM616. With regard to what you said about women articulating that they want a nice guy, it's time that we all realise that people are looking for a lot more qualities than what they bother to state out loud ,because they assume these unspoken things are universally known. Here a few of those unspoken needs. eg. Most women are looking for a man... 1. with a job that allows them to pay their share of the bills and enjoy a few luxuries as well like going out for dinner occasionally or travelling 2. who is above average in bed 3. Who is consistent in action and temperament but not overly predictable (which translates into boring a lot of the time.) 4. who is nice , but capable of being assertive setting boundaries with others when necessary 5. who grooms himself in a way that makes the most of looks ie wearing clothes that match and fit the body no matter what size or height it is, having a hairstyle that flatters the individual, trimming wild facial and nose hair etc . (Im sorry , but presentation matters in the dating world. ) And let's face it , men have their list of things they want, which they seldom state out loud eg a woman with a hot body, who is PHENOMENAL in bed, who doesn't nag, allows them lots of space to hang with their friends etc. Secondly, with regard to your point about women not giving nice guys a chance romantically,it is a fact that some of the "nice guys" with average looks actually seek out more "hot/ glamorous" women out there, and reject the more "average looking " women with great personalities. And that comes down to preference, which every person is entitled to regardless of their looks, age, gender, personality etc. But my point is this. If a "nice guy" with average looks feels entitled to seek out the "hot and glamorous" women out there, and reject the more "average looking " women with great personalities, then why are they so surprised and critical of the "hot/glamorous" women who reject the "nice guy" with average looks in favor of the "hot alpha" male. Is it not the same principle of PREFERENCE at play? And can I make a side note here? I have often hear of "nice" men accusing women of choosing a "hot " jerk over an average looking nice guy , and the characterisation of jerk is based solely on the stereotype that all good looking men are brainless or heartless, which is not always the case. I have met many "hot" men and women who go against that stereotype , and who also happened to be kind, intelligent and talented. So when guys assume that it was only looks the woman was going for, they might be surprised to learn that the woman was also captivated by other qualities eg the man's confidence, assertiveness, lack of clingyness, etc. Im not saying that a nice guy with average looks can't have those qualities. Im just saying that the stereotype of the hot guy being a jerk is just as unfair as the stereotype that the nice guy is incapable of being passionate, spontaneous and assertive. That being said, I appreciate your point that the nice guys are not always given the chance they deserve, but then again. Sometimes nice girls suffer the same fate as well at the hands ofthe nice guys. Hello Peggy. :) I like the way you think. You obviously have a good head on your shoulders. (Where do you live again? Anywhere near Plainfield, Indiana? ) I agree that no one generally rattles off a laundry list of everything he/she is looking for every time the topic is discussed.Certainly there are some presumptions about it. And, as another poster said, we are all basically looking for a very similar set of qualities in a lover, regardless of our gender or sexual orientation. I was just sharing my experience in order to offer you one man's perspective on your question. And, in fact, while we're talking about my experience, I can offer you a personal anecdote that supports some of your statements in your OP: Over the course of my last relationship, my ex told me at different times that I met every one of your bullet points above. Particularly number two. (No brag. Just fact.) And, we got along really well, and had a lot of fun together. Yet, she ended up breaking up with me. When she ended the relationship, she told me: "You're a wonderful guy. You've been nothing but good to me, and I'll always love you as a friend. But...you're just not the ONE. And, I'm not willing to settle for second best." Obviously, I was heartbroken. I was devastated. But, I got it. It's just like you said, there are so many complex factors that go into making a lasting relationship; so many personality traits (For instance.) that must be compatible. And, of course, there has to be that spark. So, yeah, there is a whole lot more to it than just being a "nice guy." Still, even though I get that, it is sometimes befuddling to have a woman tell me that she's looking for a guy who very much sounds like her description of me, yet she won't even give me a chance! ;) But,don't think I'm picking on women here, for I agree with you that men do the same thing. I don't deny that for a minute. I've seen it too many times! I think we can all think of examples of guys we have known who have a female friend that he really likes, maybe even really loves, and she is a really loving, compassionate, Top Notch lady, yet he just can't seem to bring himself to make a commitment to her because he is too busy chasing after every big-boobed blonde bimbo that crosses his field of vision. (*See footnote.) I think that what we are demonstrating here is that all of us, women or men: 1. Want the best that we can get in everything. 2. Don't always use sound judgement, particularly when it comes to relationships. 3. Finding another individual human being, regardless of gender, who is compatible enough with oneself in order to forge a life-long relationship, makes finding the proverbial needle-in-a-haystack stunningly easy by comparison. Again, I like the way you think, and I don't disagree with you. I was just trying to offer at least a partial answer to your question. :-) *Footnote- 1.I'm not saying that all blondes with big boobs are bimbos. (Like you said, many beautiful people are wonderful people.) But, some are. 2. Please forgive my goofy tangent here, but it's just the way my mind works. When I read the phrase "big-boobed blonde bimbo," I immediately think that it sounds like a page out of the Dr. Seuss's ABC Book for Adults. "Big B...Little b. What begins with b? Big-boobed blonde bimbo. B,b,B." |
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