the other night my daughter (6 years old), ask me why my bf wasnt coming around no more, i told her that we broke up.. and she ask me why did i want to date someone anyway.. she said "mom.. why cant it just be me and you, we are fun, we do stuff, do we really need someone else??? " and honestly i dont even know wat to say to her, i am sure i come up with an answer to pacify her enough for that night, but i want a good reason to give to her.. and i dont know how to explain it to a child.. anyone that can help and put it in words that a child can understand i would appreciate it.. My child didn't understand why I wanted to date either. I explained how my child liked to play with kids their age and how they wouldn't like to be around grown ups all of the time. I explained how I like to be around people my own age sometimes too. That sounds like a really good explanation for a young one. Did she get it? |
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just a simple question
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You're the one who said don't tell me...
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Is that asnything like the upper respiratory thing i've been fighting all week?
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Mingle Zombie
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Well shoot, since my batting average is worse than my boys, thought I'd give 'er a go. It tells me MZ has been moved but...to where???!!!?????
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you have a what???
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Edited by
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UH oh, The Overthe Hill Gang is taken over Mingle
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Thats Not Love
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What is love supposed to be like anyway. I've been im several relationships over the years, and thats not my idea of love. I think the way we are with each other the first week should always be. It shouldn't get old and stagnet. I know it's possible, I see older couples all the time being cute and giggly with each other, even after 30 years and more of marriage, now thats love ! I want every day of my next relationship, to be like the first day. The hand holding, the kissing and hugging in public, the pet names, the compliments, I want it all, or I want to stay single, period ![]() http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIwtzsvaVIM I think you are talking about infatuation, not love. Love is deeper than that. Love involves inner joy. It has no expectations. It is not selfish. ![]() |
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Girl, now you know in my (and your)heart i'm just teasin' ya.
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So who wants to go out
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I dunno L, I thought you were kidding the other night ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What the hell are you talking about???? you and Di switching sides....going out with all the girls when Alantis is asking you guys are opting for each other??!!!?? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Why are you still Single?
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just because....
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So who wants to go out
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I dunno L, I thought you were kidding the other night
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All Ya Need Is Love
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smack, smack, smack. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() welcome to the nut house, if ya haven't noticed by now. Lori, you have to leave, you're not here yet. ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm not really sure what am apologizing for, but the way things have been going on here today just thought I'd smooth things over before -I- get in trouble also. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Wedding Photography.....
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on so many levels, his poor cameras!
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Wedding Photography.....
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just so wrrrooonnnnggggg.
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All Ya Need Is Love
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Okay, I'm sending out love to all you knuckleheads tonight, you know who you are.
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Soul Mate?
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I don't know if our souls change, maybe mature could be the wword I'd use.
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what would you do???
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I had a pint of karma sutra last night because I was sick, so nothing at this point. Ask again next week
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Soul Mate?
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Yup, I believe in 'soul mates'..I just think we can have many of them. Is not just 'one' person. All those we connect with at a heart level are our soul mates. This is what I feel also, a soul friend, like Equss stated. The people you know the minute you meet them, laugh easily with. Friends right off the start. Met 2 in my life but one of us was always with the other at the time. Being here, I wouldn't know, I'd have to be with them physically (in the same room- get your mind out of the gutter you pervs ![]() ![]() |
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