I say waiting is a very cool thing... However, why are you gals so down and saying I wish I had waited! Waited for what? Like it would have been better to wait for marriage first? In those situations generally you are trying to enjoy life and explore. It's okay to have had sex. People made a big deal about sex for years. There are all kinds of people getting married before sex... Doesn't mean it works. ... I completely agree and as I stated a few pages back, I don't understand what the big deal is about virginity. It's not a "gift," it's not a virtue. Being a virgin simply means, for whatever reason, one hasn't had sex. I believe the big deal to some people is that they have morals and a faith in God. Not everyone does but some do. So that is the big deal to them. It may not be to you or other but to some it is and it is respectable for them. Being a virgin is a gift. Just having sex with every person you think you are in a relationship with weighs heavy on a lot of peoples' heart, souls and bodies. If you don't want to wait, don't. But please dont knock someone who wants too. Not "knocking" anyone. However, I must disagree, virginity is NOT a gift. It's a physical fact. Everyone is born a virgin just as everyone is born not being able to talk or walk. |
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I'll repeat. I'm using the same language as you are here that everyone understands. Also, like I've said, it takes time to get used to having ideas of your own ![]() You certainly do have ideas of your own, it's just too bad they're all moronic. |
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Prostitution wrapped in the cloak of "stability" and family. This topic was not about the subject of prostitution, though it'd be interesting to know how many times gustava's given it away for free, as she is pro pre-nup as well. I think that would be called low self-esteem and having no family values to not value a stable home and family. Heehee. Goddess, but you are an idiot. |
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"You're a writer? Where do you get your ideas from?" I steal them from old Captain Marvel comic books, like any normal person, where do you THINK? Ha! Yes, that and "So, what have you published?" |
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Sweetie, your photos make you look like Satan.
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Like my profile says: I'm sarcastic, pessimistic, vain, shallow, perverted and have been known to be quite a jerk when the conditions are right. ![]() Heehee. I'm a sucker for a peg-leg! |
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Like my profile says:
I'm sarcastic, pessimistic, vain, shallow, perverted and have been known to be quite a jerk when the conditions are right. |
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I'm really good at quitting, it's the staying a non-smoker that I suck at.
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Mmmm...Cabana boy.....
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Nope. Life's too short.
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If she plays it right, and he makes enough... 10grand/kid Housing allowance. Schools. Alimony. child related expenses. And customary lifestyle for the kids THRU her. Total/ yr. 1.2-1.5 mil. Plus trust funds and her access to...for the kids...yeah, right!?!?!?!?!? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah and when she's 40 and he's long gone at least she'll have the money to snuggle up to... |
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What really rankles me about this is that women having been striving for decades to be seen as equals to men (not better, EQUAL) and then someone like Ms. Money-grubber comes along....
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God, if she has children they are going to be such bratty monsters...
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Of course you wouldn't... Are you smart enough to sign one ![]() I'd sign one because I actually have INTEGRITY. Integrity is walking away with dignity, since you insist on bringing divorce into the picture ![]() You are wrong little girl, by signing a pre-nup, I am stating that I am not a gold-digger. Then you are also going into it under the presumption that you ARE ![]() That makes zero sense. Want to try again? |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Of course you wouldn't... Are you smart enough to sign one ![]() I'd sign one because I actually have INTEGRITY. Integrity is walking away with dignity, since you insist on bringing divorce into the picture ![]() You are wrong little girl, by signing a pre-nup, I am stating that I am not a gold-digger. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Of course you wouldn't... Are you smart enough to sign one ![]() I'd sign one because I actually have INTEGRITY. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Well good luck finding your man. A majority of us don't agree with you, but I'm sure there's some sleazebag sugar daddy businessman out there hoping for someone like you. At least until the next plaything comes along. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. Of course you wouldn't... |
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Maybe she really is in grad school...It's just hard to picture an intelligent, ambitious woman wanting something like that for herself.... That is why I am so skeptical. |
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? You don't want a "suitable marriage and family partner," you want to use someone to get what you want. Frankly, your laziness and materialism would scare the sh it out of me if I were a man. That sounds hateful. I am in graduate studies and will be earning a master's degree. Wanting a nice house for yourself and your children is a good thing, right? Graduate school? Where, Degrees-R-Us.com? |
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