love wants us to give a second chance but wisdom should deny it...trust me been there 3 times over 20 years...cant fix stupid.

morals are THE MOST important binder in a realationship....without them...it cant exist but as a lie to ones self

everyone on a dating site is desperate....not just for sex...but for a realationship where sex is free.
Now thats human nature

its the whole package put together that matters....no individual thing ,and the individual that judges gets to decide what the package should contain.

thanks for all you replies...they all make scense..i have seen my doctor and all they want to do these days is fill a guy with pills. , not an answer to deppression in my opinion.
Meeting a nice woman with REAL morals would definatley help.
That is the reason i joined this site i cant give up on the notion.

I have no idea how to socialize as an adult. The last time i even attempted to approach a women 20 years ago (young lady back then), i was a completly different person.
I will admit that being older, i feel less confident around women.
Everyone goes through different experiences while life puts on the years. 20 years ago i was a confident young man ready to jump up at every oppourtunity...now in my early 40s i was used to a confidence with 1 women and assumed i would die with that.
Now i find myself single wanting to approach the "scary" dating scene ,which i have never done...now as a single dad with a 13 year old boy and 2 adult kids.
My realationship was a very rocky one and it involved a women that has beat the past memories and myself up so bad that im unsure how to talk to the other sex.....god knows i want to because i am a very codependant person...i love (my future lady) unconditionally....
now im rambling but i would appretiate some advice from the females around my age the best way you could invision a man trying to become involved emotionally with yourselves????
.....if i made any scense at all lol