Pick a central location maybe by poll or post or something with a vote.

I can usually use the same complaint.altho i am not looking for a man.it seems to be that anyone that is interested is never local.5 hours + away and they are all over me/you in your back yard they won't even look your way. thats the one thing about online dating i've never understood.
altho this is what i believe and i got the line from a tv show.

[woman talking] 'There i was standing on the corner waiting for the light to change.and next to me was this average looking man. and i was so busy looking around for someone hotter to talk to,that i stepped in front of a bus and this man not knowing me threw me out of the way and saved my life.'
now that is not word for word but i think you get the idea.

and thats how i believe women and men look at online dating.

Ted wouldn't stick his foot in his mouth or appoligize for anything he has said or done like Jessie did.