I just wanted to share my wonderful news with everyone!! Last Wednesday my boyfriend asked me to marry him!!!

I’m Engaged!!!
Current mood: excited

Earlier on Wednesday John ( my boyfriend, fiance now) had called and said he was having a busy day because the machines their partners use kept messing up and he's responsible for writing the code for them and stuff like that. Then on my way home he and I were talking and he made his phone ring. He said he had to go to Mt. Pleasant to fix one of the machines and wanted to know if I would come with him. I said yes and when I was inside changing clothes he was being all weird I'm like John what the heck are you so nervous about (because he was pacing) he's like I've got to get going babe! So we left and he stopped by work to get the paperwork. So, it is raining and blah cause yeah that's SC the last week. So then I'm like John these directions aren't to Mt. Pleasant they're to downtown. He's like oh man I hate having to go to that one. So we find his partners Business and he runs in for like 3 minutes and then comes back to say they are idiots and had the wrong information in the machine and they should have been able to fix it. Previous to this on the trip we were discussing where we wanted to eat dinner in Mt.Pleasant so then he wanted to take my to my favorite French restaurant downtown but after work I changed into jeans and I'm like well I can't go in there in jeans. So I'm like well you know I've never been to California Dreaming I want to go there. So we went there and had a awesome meal. Then he's like I don't feel like going home lets do something. So, I'm like we can go downtown to the battery, go get ice cream, or go see a movie. He's like they all sound good but the movie. Then I'm like oh my gosh I'm so full I don't know if I want to walk! But then I'm like lets do it! So may I also add that downtown was the second part of our first date we went to the battery and the waterfront. So we went up on the Gazebo and talked and looked around. Then he's like I kind of lied to you today and I'm like … huh? And he got down on his knee and asked me to marry him! I took the ring for about two seconds and then started jumping up and down and told him to do it again!!!!! He then informed me he had asked my dad for his permission, and then drove to my mother's work and asked my mother's permission as well!!!

my only prob with the moderators is when they get involved in a chat argument or think that someone is saying something " mean" to another person.. i'm sorry but we are all grownups ... do we really need a mom or dad on the site to tell us that's not nice adn we will be punished...

i just want to punch him for you .. my whole philosophy is there is not excuse you either want me or you don't if you do you better make time for me... your heart knows where it is and you know whats goign on if its good or bad we don't , just make sure you don't settle for something less than you deserve.

anyways lets all bond now and hug....

you know i often ponder this question about my self, but think of this ... okay we have to not just wipe like guys when we take a crap, we have tow ipe everytime we go to the bathroom whether its a number 1 or a 2, or period time... Also, i don't know about you but im always scared my finger will go through the tp and... you know where that could lead with any of the above .... i want to make sure everything is clean... nothing left behind... mwahahahha... and that i don't get no extras on my hand.. so i use a bunch of toilet paper and my phobia causes me tow ipe like 3 times lol

uhm honestly, I don't try to hook up with anyone on jsh/mingle i use to flirt I don't really do that anymore.

anyways when my bf and I got together my dating websites i disabled them and took them off if i could this one i just changed the heading to cause i only get on at work when i'm bored gives me a chat to go into thats not like yahoo chat where im bombarded by porn ims and weirdos. ... plus i like the religion section hee hee... anyways though ...

if youre so hot wheres your pic and why don't you have your profile filled out...

plus he could be kidding.

take off the picture in the middle it makes your head look funny.

Your profile part is good tell what you are looking for

so overall i think it is pretty good! welcome to the site definitly post around !

my best advice is he doesn't want you around, honestly, no matter how much someone works or his kids if HE WANTS YOU , he will MAKE TIME FOR YOU. Him having no time just means you're something he does/ your relationship/ when he has nothing better to do.

I'm being honest if you've been dating for 4 months and you aren't around when his kids are there why not? maybe i'm stuck in my ways but if you're going to have a relationship make it one not a texting one. Plus, this is only the beginning its suppose to still be " spry" and fascinating for both of you to talk about all your stories, not you staying home thinking about him meanwhile hes at work, with his family, etc, etc, etc, and you're not included.

I would dump his ass, but if you're not me have you thought about telling him you'd like to do lunch 1 a week, it helps to set up a stable environment that on Wednesdays at 12 pm you will both have lunch somewhere. Then you also need to tell him i feel lonely and i need more time, because i'm not getting what i want out of this relationship. If he cares he will listen and you guys can make plans on how to spend more time together if he doesn't try well then you know your answer it is tough but true.

hahahahha

ddn-- your post always make me laugh, you get my vote for funniest on jsh/mingle

um this one time when i was a little girl i was playing with my barbie house and i had a little wine bottle that i was trying to set on the table to have barbie drink...( alcoholic ho) anyways... i went to set it down but it was like floating in air, swear to god i poked it with my finger and it fell down and i ran and told my mom.

the end.

oh my i can see it now girl in chat talks guy into killing wendy commercials star. hahahahh

i don't think you have to kill the wendy girl i think it is that guy ont he wendy's commercials who wears the dang red wig.. now he needs to go.

the little green men who dance upon the flowers.

okay so i just finished angel the 5th season and I was distraught to know how it ended! any one agree?

I even looked it up online to see if i missed a season; however, apparently the author created season 6 in a comic book but not as part of the show.... makes me sad.

hahah i literally cracked up
if jesus wanted to save you why would he create the hurricane to hit florida?

you know its a builder, if you're just getting to know him like me and my bf for example I wouldn't discuss peeing pooping with him for like the first 6 month sof our relationship

but now much later after a year i'm like dang i took a huge crap this morning.. and i def. give him tmi but he does the same....

I mean for me he went pee with the door open and thats where i had to draw the line i told him no peeing or pooping with the door open until we've been married for years... bc well i'm just not ready to see the stream. lol but it all depends on the person but hey if its part of your personality tell him to deal or hit the road.

omg what is that smell

i tottaly agree, i am madly in love with my beau but i'm worried i mean you really never know and with divorce rates being like they are the only thing you can do is hope so my advice is if you have money and or valuable possessions to get a pre nump. if not just go by your heart, and his... cause you know killah it takes 2 to stay married so make sure you go thim in line...

it might represent how you feel about the opposite sex, perhaps you're afraid that he will hurt you not physically you know but mentally or maybe you're worried about having your heart crushed.

Then again maybe you've had someone die in your life and you're afraid of losing someone that may be that close to you again

or maybe you want to kill and hurt him ( its what freud would say)

or maybe you just seen a movie that had something to do with a dead guy and its coming in through your dreams... only you know about your dream and why you had it and the way you felt about the death.