Well said John

lmao I'm not even gonna comment on that. haha well I guess I just did. But I won't say anything else :)

Don't take offense to this statement, but you are 48 years old so you KNOW what makes a relationship last. So of course you'd choose the nice guy over the jerk. If only girls my age had your mindset



Advice taken. lol I def. won't do that again, they were after me with pitchforks!!

You are right, though on the flip side, most guys who truly are "nice guys" aren't that attractive. If they were, girls wouldn't have such a hard time being interested in them.

I'm just saying that, while it's true and sad and a fact, relationships are generally built around physical attraction. I'm not attacked any particular girl(ok well maybe the few who wanted to swap nude pics)

By the way, I'm seeing way too many "You shouldn't say all girls are like that because I'm not like that". Don't take offense to it, obviously not every girl on earth is like that, just most girls my age(and around my age).

I am who I am... I don't have to "work on it". you make it sound like I spent months under a fake profile and was never the real Danny. It was only for about 2 weeks and spent maybe 10 minutes a day. Not exactly a social outcast like you imply.

Ok put it this way: ATTRACTIVE WOMEN go for the hot guys, which are typically jerks.

lol!!! yes, because a) this shirt is about crack and supports and encourages it and b) I wear it anywhere but in my house. lol that's GOTTA be why I can't find the right girl.

Hey all, well the plans I had fell thru, so now I'm left with no plans for a friday night. I'd love to just meet up and grab a bite, maybe see a movie. You know, pretty traditional stuff. I'm not a creep or weirdo, that much I can assure you. I'm 24, and I guess if you want to know more you can always check out my profile

What about my post implied that I don't know much about women? Trust me, I know LOTS about how to make a woman smile, what's sweet, what's creepy, what kind of thing makes their friends jealous, what gets them going(physically), etc. It's not like I've never had a relationship. It's just getting woman past that physical attraction barrier that is the toughest part.

haha funny you ask, I actually made a post concerning that in the 'relationship & dating' section. Check it out :)

I read the forum rules on how to post and that person guaranteed I'd find someone faster that way but I think it's bs, and here's why.

When making a profile on a dating website, what do they ALWAYS recommend and say it will improve results... upload a picture! Sadly, this is the truth, because we have such high expectations that we want someone who is attractive before we'll even talk to them. That's not to say I'd talk up a conversation with everyone under the sun but some people are just sad. Here's an example:

On another popular free dating website, I setup a fake account with a friend of mine's pics(with his permission) and he is known around the circle of friends to be very good looking. As you might expect, girls are MUCH more responsive to his messgaes opposed to those messages I'd send(usually a day or do later, so that she wouldn't suspect any foul play).

Not only that, but girls were generally more open about their pasts than they were with my real profile. Numerous girls admitted to one-night stands, sexual partners, and one girl even gave her number after only a few messages(most of which were me intentionally acting like a jerk). A few girls were also very open to the idea of trading nude pictures(something I didn't even bring up to them!) all for a guy who for all they know might not even be available or, worse yet, not the guy they see in the profile.

The point is: girls LOVE attention from a good-looking guy. They will put up with him being a jerk so they can "try to change him" but we all know that's not gonna happen. Sadly, I think the problem is that if girls get attention from ONE good-looking guy online, they immediately filter out all the guys who don't match up, because they think "If I can get one hot guy to message me, surely I can get others". Do I feel bad for tricking them? Hell no! It was an experiment I'm glad I did because it shows the truth that girls are indeed more superficial than they claim to be... at least online. I can't say the same for a girl who first meets a guy in person.

On the flip side, being kind and courteous? What a load of crap! Girls hate that stuff. If they could have their way, they'd have a super hot guy treat them like total crap over a mediocre guy treating them like a queen. Like I said, with the fake profile, within the first message or 2, I was bringing up personal questions and most were very willing to answer. Now, some were questions I'd never ask from my real profile... I just have too much respect for a girl to ask that kind of stuff. But I suppose that's the problem. I care too much.

The simple fact is, if someone wants to invoke terror and holdup somewhere or threaten someone with a gun, whether there is a law in place or not, they will do it. So simply being allowed to with a permit doesn't make anywhere more or less dangerous. Think about it.

Hey all, I'm a member of pretty much every free dating site. And have posted stuff in the personals of CL. Just lookin for someone I can get along with.