hey ruewen.. looks like everyone else here would buy you a meal, so,
just to be different, i tell you what, I'd let you pay for me a meal if
you feel like it :) This offer expires while you wait :)

Thats what you were really wanting to know, isnt it? if you could buy
someone dinner? :)

Yeah, ihats true Candy.. when using all caps, its impossible to express
anything other than yelling, no room for subtle variations..

yea, I would have to say I agree with you andrew, I was really just
interested in getting different peoples perspectives on why they chose
the route that they did. Obviously, anyone looking at my profile now
would see i;ve chose the open route this time.. guess I figured I'd try
something new for a change.

kids = hyperactive

hyperactive =

add another one to the list of those form texas

you're goddamn straight I'd date a bisexual woman.. I had to think about
that for all of, oh, i dont know, 2 seconds..

I cant speak to the stigma of the other side, but I know for nearly any
heterosexual guy, two women together is just plain hot.. I just dont
think the reverse is true from a women's perspective though (maybe it is
though, i dont know).. doesnt make either one more right or wrong than
the other, its just a matter of perspective. I dont really think it s a
bias, its just a difference in how the two sexes think.

reminds me of a mad tv skit I saw called brokeback mountain 2, where it
was two lesbians going up to brokeback mountain.. she comes back home,
her husband tells her he suspects cheating is taking place, and she
explains whats been going on.. after which he proceeds to do a little
jig around the living room :)tagline was "This time, its ok to be gay."

I've been through that exact same thing before from the other side..
theres nothing waiting for you at the end of this tunnel (at least
nothing serious), I can promise you that.. there are some people who
will string you on as long as they possibly can, and this sound like one
of those situations to me.. the way it usually works, is one day the
shit will hit the fan in their world, and thats when you'll see them
coming back around, and then when its all back together again, you'll be
right back where you are now..

but, as ruewen said, if you can be cool with the relationship between
you two being at a friends with bennefits level, then you can keep that
going, but I would probably tell him to cut the sweet talk crap out but,
thats just me

The subject pretty much says it all... where do you go to meet people?
Where do you find you have the most success meeting them, and where have
you found the most quality people at?

wow anderw, thats really disgusting :) ive never heard that one before,
but thats definitely a good one.. when you say there was shit all over
the place,I guess you meant it literally on that one.

Yeah, but if ur talking in teh K4PS is EL1TE and STUFf

She probably does rock, I just had to appreciate the irony of an angry
person who dislikes angry people.. I mean, thats just funny.
Much like her post for the continue the story thing in the main forum
was.. i practically lost it on that one..

just an observation, but your profile, well, its awfully angry for a
person whose turnoff is anger.. :) I dont have a problem with being
straight forward or anything (in fact, im a preacher on that soap box),
but if I was asked to name 5 things I rememebred on your profile, that
would have to be number one

and I would consider that completely acceptable also.. the only source
of pain in those types of relationships is when one person
misunderstands the nature of the relationship, so its best to get that
out up front.

Someone well grounded and down to Earth. Doesn't freak over little
things, has sour taste in the mouth for "games" (as if there's anyone
who would tell you they didn't). Likes a good joke, finds humor in
everyday life and perhaps a touch on the sarcastic side. Knows that
being in a relationship doesnt mean you have to call me every hour on
the hour to make sure we're still in a relationship.. I also like
straight forwardness as it makes things so much easier.

In a Nissan Maxima with a woman 15 years my elder.. we were at it for a
while, and I never did goet off.. so, I'm really not sure if that counts
:)

As I have tried several different sites in the past, and looked through
countless peoples profiles, this question occured to me one day, and I
propose it to you now. When writing your profile, do you aim to make
the profile as inclusive to as many types of people as possible or as
exclusive to the things you like/expect as possible? And why have you
chosen that particular route?

It always surprised me to read profiles that seemed to leave everything
open such that almost anyone might be induced to reply. For me, it was
always an attempt to exclusify; to narrow the margin such that at least
some people will look at the profile and say, "Nope, not that one.."

I'll be the first to say I dont know which is right and I could play
devils advocate on either side, so im interested in hearing some others
opinions.

It seems to me that looks are mostly a doorway to me. Looks tend to get
things started, but after that personality becomes important. For
example, there have been times that people I was not initially attracted
to became attractive the more I got to know them..