I've been doing this for 10 years. I've even done some customer service for one of the larger online dating services. I've learned a lot.

Reasons it's so hard to find love online, A lot of people don't take it seriously. A lot of people use online dating as their own personal playground. (2)Men and women that are only looking for sex. (Mostly men.) (3) Time wasters. They show up on site but hardly ever answer a message. (4) Too many people that are so full of themselves that no one is good enough online or in the real world of dating. (5) Then you have those that look at a picture and read a few words in a profile and think they know you. (6) Too many shallow people. To go out with one of these you have to look or be a certain way.(7) You may not believe the amount of people that lack social and conversational skills. Boring men and women that can't string enough words together to make a sentence.

What do you value more? Looks or brains?