I HAVE A TEENAGER BOY OF 16..IN THE BEGINNING HE WAS A QUIET BOY..DIDNT SPEAK MUCH...BUT HE DOES HAVE A BROTHER A YEAR YOUNGER THAN HIM...WELL..BETWEEN THE AGES OF 1 AND 7 MY HUSBAND AND I WENT THRU A TERRIBLE DIVORCE..HE SAW MUCH OF THE SADNESS..AND AS HE GOT OLDER HE STARTED CHANGING...MY BOYS AND I USE TO DO EVERYTHING TOGETHER..NOW THE OLDEST THE 16 YR OLD DOESNT LIKE DOING ANYTHING WITH US..HES ALWAYS FRUSTRATED AND ANGRY..HE DOESNT LIKE TO BE HELD OR LOVED BY ME..HIM AND HIS BROTHER CANT BE TOGETHER CAUSE THEY WILL START ARGUING...MY 16 YR OLD WONT DO ANYTHING I SAY..AND HE,LL ALWAYS RETURN WITH AN ANSWER OF (ILL DO IT LATER MA)..AND STILL DOESNT DO IT...HE TOTALLY STOP GOING TO CHURCH WITH US.....BUT THERES THINGS I CAN SAY GOOD ABOUT HIM...HES A HARD WORKER..HE DOES ALOT OF RANCH WORK WITH HIS BEST FRIEND..HE LOVES HUNTING AND FISHING. HE LOVE SPORTS VERY MUCH..HES INVOLVED IN FOOTBALL AND BASKETBALL, GOLDEN GLOVES BOXING..AND HE RUNS FOR THE VETERANS ONCE A YEAR ON THE FREEDOM RUN...HES ALWAYS STRUGGLED AT SCHOOL...AND IM ALWAYS AT HIS SCHOOL BECAUSE HES CONSTANTLY DISTRACTING THE CLASS..FOR EXAMPLE...THE TAPPING OF A PENCIL..THE SWEARING...EASILY DISTRACTED..CANT THINK ON HIS WORK....AND IT GOES ON...I LOVE HIM SO MUCH...BUT I DONT ALWAYS WANT HIM MAD AT ME...IM A SINGLE MOM OF TWO BOYS...WORK FULLTIME...AND I AM ALWAYS THERE FOR HIM..ARE THESE SIGNS OF SOMETHING...