You are correct on both points thanks for taking time to respond. I'm still fresh off recent divorce after being monogamous for 12yrs and clearly still have a lot to learn about about being single. I do have safe sex but of course nothing is safer than abstinence.

I don't have them very often but when I confessed I'd had two recently a guy I was interested in dating got jealous and freaked out. I wasn't even his girlfriend when I had them so isn't it weird that he'd flip out about it? I feel like he expected me to be monogamous with him before we'd ever met. Is that normal? He'd never mentioned sex with other ppl was gonna be an issue during the weeks we texted prior to meeting once for coffee. I wasn't gonna fault him for sleeping with anyone while in Las Vegas over New Year's since we hadn't met in person yet. I guess I was naive to think he'd appreciate an honest woman no I'm not that promiscuous I've only had sex twice since Halloween. I feel like this guy over-reacted when he said he never wants to see me again and I wanna know am I in the wrong? I'm just gonna go back to being abstinent for awhile if it's gonna cause this much drama. I really did wanna be in a serious relationship but now the guy doesn't believe me.