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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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Single and basking in it
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2010 Dating
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Get out more, meet more people...been a cavedweller this past year...
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JSH crushes - part 16
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<~~~~~~~ so not crushing here..
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I feel it's going to be a GREAT day today!..
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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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There are alot of variables involved...Whether it's financial, or just the fact that two people aren't sure they want to go thru with it...the latter is my humble opinion...I think when two people put getting a divorice on the back burner for several months, sometimes years, I think they aren't sure of this decision....
Hence, I would never date a married man not for just the reason mentioned above, but it's unethical, and lacks integrity... You are defined by your actions more than your words...just my opinion..you handled the situation well...sorry you had to go thru that..but at least you know ahead of time.. 
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I have a weakness for great smiles...
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I would never allow someone to dictate who and what I can do in my life. I am great friends with my EX and well if someone I was dating told me that he didnt' want me to talk to him anymore. The first reaction would be don't make me choose, second would be pity. They must have such a low self esteem issue that they can't realize I am with them because I want to be, and I am not with my EX because I don't want to be.  
I totally agree....it's a sign of insecurity, and who wants that? 
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LDR can work if both people are willing to work at it...it isn't easy but can be done...I'm all for it if it's the 'right' person, and the only way to know if it's the "right" person is by going for it, communication, and meeting every chance you get...
I say yes, go for LDR... 
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 16
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Ok why is there this thread... why would a person be on mingle2 if they were taken...doesn't that defeat the whole purpose of this site? and if they were on here and they just found someone, then they wouldn't be coming to this site for a while or ever again.. Some people are here for friends, even after they've met someone, many people stick around to talk to the friends they've made. Ditto |
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wouldn't it be great if I could sleep in for once..
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For some reason, my Mutual Match candidates had piled up, and I spent a long time going through them this morning. So bleak, so defensive -- all of the profiles were either "Ask me" or "I don't know what to write here" or long, rambling diatribes about "Don't contact me if you're going to hurt me. Don't contact me if you're going to lie to me. Don't contact me if you're going to use me. Don't contact me if you just want sex. Don't contact me if you think asparagus is for dessert...." What does it say when someone's very first comment is intended to build an impenetrable wall? I have a little snip in my profile about how I'm attracted to the "you and me against the world" kind of relationship philosophy, although I was forced to admit that the world would probably win, because they have so many weapons. But I've always felt that a relationship, ideally, is supposed to be a sort of "team" concept -- we help each other, we support each other, we work towards some common goals, while maintaining our individual identities. (Not that I've ever actually experienced such a thing -- and maybe it doesn't exist -- it just seems right to me, at least as a hypothetical.) But now it seems that "you and me against the world" has been replaced with "you and me against each other" -- If I wanted that, I would have stayed married. I know that I'm gulty of putting up that wall, even to this day..it has nothing to do with past experiences, it's just part of who I am.. I'm very shy and it does take someone ALOT of work to penetrate that wall... With that said, your comment about team concept; and the part about individual identities really got my attention....why is it, at least I have found, some people depend on others' for their identity?... Good Post Lex...
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Messed up relations
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Boy, did I ever see some drama tonight. Basically, this chick I know found out that about three hours ago, her boyfriend was out banging another chick. Okay, so you are all gonna think what I thought right? Dude is history. No way she takes him back right? Well, dude shows up at her place, they have an argument, they make up, next thing I know they shag and are all lovey dovey now? WTF??????? 
She sounds as though she's the type to feel incomplete without a man in her life....can't figure people like that out...too much work.. |
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happiness
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Detachment from all desires is the key to happiness.
I agree... |
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starfish for me..
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Human behavior
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I wish life could/would be what it was in the 1800's and early 1900's...It was WAY different and more real! Those were the good ole days (80's)...I agree... 
OK. so I only had one cup of coffee sue me...thought you wrote 80's...still agree with you though, but the music!?...ugh...that would be a drag... |
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Human behavior
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I wish life could/would be what it was in the 1800's and early 1900's...It was WAY different and more real! Those were the good ole days (80's)...I agree...
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maintaining relationship
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I would have to say friendship without that you don't have a foundation to build a relationship on...
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Perceiving Love
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 Do you think that the music people listen to can affect the way they perceive love?
I think music can affect ones mood, but not the way they perceive love...
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When Someone Says Love
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What is the first thing that pops into your head when someone says love?
Yikes! 
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Can You Really?
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Nope I don't think so..
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