The reason there is no room for love to develop between people thusly impossible to find is for the simple reason...people BY THE MASSES are not concerned with love, they just aren't.

Too many people want to have fun and live it up...which mostly from what I know living it up consists of just ****ing random people they find appealing purely to the eye.

I can tell you now anyone that has been alive since--well... I guess I should say as I get older and the newer generations are ushered in I know my generation is going to have some damn lonely *** people when my generation realizes that they are 1. not immortal and/or 2. don't have $300,000+ to drop on cosmetic surgery to appease the voyeuristic eyes alone of the lust hounds they helped create.

For some reason society has it in mind (on average) that people expire after 30! You are either below or above 30. why? I don't ****in' know?

--And there is nothing to be done about that fact. Nothing, that's what people think (on average).

What I don't understand is what guys in my generation are going to do when they hit 30 and want someone to love but can't find anyone because as a whole people were more concerned (in earlier times) helping their peers "live it up".

As a collective whole again, society, in its many believed to be parts, is more concerned with teaching the generations behind them **** life long knowledge than actually thinking about how their actions of today affect those of tomorrow. They/we don't do it verbally or directly literally but they/we do it by our actions which become habits which they inherit.

So what happens? EVERYONE as whole spends all their individual energy doing **** all else thinking, "it's not hurting anyone, and it's 'fun' for now", not realizing that 1. they WILL tire out of turning circles and tricks with other people and 2. they are passing these near sighted habits to people after, before and with them; BUT then turn around and wonder later in life why they can't find anyone to be with...why? Because at that moment there is nor will be anyone one to be with to find/develop love.

As a collective whole (and not a fragmented bag of parts or individuals) people are creating people they see unfit to find love with thinking there will be someone else when really there, given enough time, WONT be anyone left because they spent all their time following their eyes...which can only see physically what is happening now, they never thought they'd need to look in front of and behind them.

Again...as a collective whole everyone pays on the tab. You're in on it whether you want to be or not, what you are in on is responsibility for your fellow man which no one seems to give a **** about nowadays. I don't know where to find it, I don't all I can tell you is it's going to get worse and that all the things I listed above and more do nothing but make it harder and thin out your chances more and more and more.

This is my partial answer to your question. Obviously anyone with half a mind knows that sometimes people give up, they become fed up and understand it's damn near hopeless and being beings of practicality, put it aside as a waste of time and effort and "go with the flow". And, yes I know not everyone does these things some people still believe in monogamy and healthy relationships and ultimately love; I know we have never lived in a black and white world so I understand that there any many things to be considered but if any of what I say is wrong why is this question plastered everywhere you go I personally feel and think it is miles worse in the gay Community than the straight community but nonetheless existent everywhere...

For any of you guys or gals that are into religion or believe in the Bible or parts of it, I believe this is the precise reason God suggests to not even think immoral thoughts i.e. to lust after the flesh. It only makes things worse for ourselves, yep you got it, as a whole.

BTW the topic starter deleted his account.