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Mon 06/08/09 06:54 PM
well i read some of the things people have posted and some are just repetitive. it might be too late for this i didnt look at he date. but as everone these days know you are who you hang out with... or atleast people see it this way. i would let him move back in. reason being he needs your guidance. cuz it sure dont seem like he is getting it from anyone else. sure set some rules down with him. dont argue because when people do they quit listening. all they do is hear. help him make goals in his life. show him values in life not just threats. meaning dont just think of it as "work" make him see the benefits of being able to have his own money. i dislike two kinds of people in this world liars and theifs... if you are one then your most likely the other. it sounds like he has alot to learn. i could also recommend rebuilding some kind of relationship with him. i know for example most parents dont care about video games. for example.. but if you show interest in what he is doing then he might show interest in what you have to say or feel. i have been living on my own since i was about 16ish... not by choice. no it wasnt me and no i aint in denial. long story. but i had to learn very quick. lol i am 28 june 10th. and i had to grow up quick and missed out on alot of fun. but i learned early what i had to do to graduate high school on my own. ... i dunno i might sound like a babbling idiot! lol but yeah some people just say oh put your foot down. but to be honest that might not always be the case. feel free to write me back if you want anymore input..
take care and goodluck! keep me posted!
dennis~feel free to write anytime