I don't see any red flag in what you described.
I personally don't like investing a lot of energy into a potential relationship until we've met in person and I can verify that there really is potential.
So, from what you described, I would be wanting to meet already too.
You have to go with your instincts though. If you feel something is not right, but you don't understand why, then don't reason away your intuition. Listen to it, something is not right. But if you don't have any such vibe, then make sure fear doesn't cause you to miss out on an experience that could enhance your holiday season.

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That will work.

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