The most important and basic need of a male is admiration and approval and he obviously thought you would disaprove. You must have voiced that about his new wife. So his response will be to stay away from you..even after the grandkids unless you sign on to accept his choices and be happy for him. As a mother of 3 sons who have chosen their life partners and had children...if you want to lose a son, reject his wife and if you want to enjoy your son and his children, accept his choice unconditionally and embrace her but I would try to meet with them beforehand to work that out so that you can really enjoy the wedding. Put your pride away and think of his feelings first. If he is making a wrong choice he will pay for it later but he needs you to be on his side now.

Absolutely simple truth and simple honesty. Thank you for renewing my mind. I have met a few dirty pigs I refuse to waller with.

Your clothing says one thing and your words another...Don't base an attraction on sex if you want a Christian man because hopefully he'll have more depth and wisdom than that.