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Sat 09/25/10 09:26 AM

Why can someone constantly lie to the ones that they love?


Lying can be a personality quirk as well. It can be out of habit.

They could also be lying to keep others out of their business, no matter what that is. It could be triggered from a complete lack of privacy.

Another possibility is a lack of respect for their family/friends, ie I'll say what I want, they are too dumb to figure it out etc.


The psychosis liars will stick to a lie as if it were reality even when you present absolute proof that you know that they lied. They have a deep fear of losing their fabricated version of reality. The one they created to cover up what they did wrong.

Sometimes if liars are confronted enough and it's not an obvious mental condition that they are dealing with, if they don't take off, they usually convert into a brutual honesty personality over time with the attitude of if you don't like what I have to say, shove it. Not always a good thing to deal with either.

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Sat 09/25/10 09:14 AM
Martian

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Wed 09/15/10 07:21 PM

surprised surprised

soo,, ur saying,, thieves and racists can actually implement their way into politics???? surprised

in all fairness, I am sure the democratic party isnt exactly without its racists as well,,


There is no fairness without example. Let's not just assume here. There is a big difference between being racist against many types of people, and disliking a racist for their closed minded views. big difference.

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Sun 09/05/10 05:00 PM
Edited by Monier on Sun 09/05/10 05:06 PM
This happened on a social network that I am currently subscribed to.

Recently I've been getting a few emails on "twitfacespace' from this girl sharing with me how much they absolutely loved my profile etc. I'll paste one below: I've changed the email addys to protect the inoc er guilty Oh, not to mention that profile and info there can only be seen by my friends O.o


Hey Handsome,

I just jumped into your profile now.. And believe me this is the greatest gift of my eyes sight today... I registered some days back but its my first time of sorting the website and decided to sort it a little bit and I found this beautiful profile... Anyway my name is "Insert name that no parent could have possibly inflicted on their child here" but you can call me ... I'm 5'9 and I am single mother with no kids ... I like to know something about you.. Could you please reply me back... So that we can share lot more about each other. U can even add me on blahblahblah@blah.com so that we can chat.

Take care. - "the name sounds like spoiled food, trust me" .

(Notice above, she decribes herself as a Single Mother with 'NO' kids. Oh that is rich! I blew soda out of my nose after reading that, I laughed so hard)

My real name that you can't see haha September 5 at 2:36pm Hi,

where are you from??

M .

"Date scam script 3.0 wrote" September 5 at 6:24pm Report
Oohh...thanks for your responds back to me and I found you very interesting because your message really motivated me, am from NY Brooklyn and I am deeply moved and very impressed by you. I think we seems to have alots in common and I must admit that you are very fun loving with great personality.i will be looking forward to hear back from you and hope you will give me your email address so that we can get to know each other more better.......


WTH? LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL OMG It would sure be refreshing sometimes if I got an email from somebody titled something like "Hi, I'm and idiot, read this because it won't make sense" or "If you're going to waste time on the web, why not waste time sending me money" At least it would be honest.

Oh and this was reported as sent at 8:26PM their time and was recieved at 12:26 pm my time. From New York my ***.

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Fri 09/03/10 08:32 PM
Edited by Monier on Fri 09/03/10 08:32 PM
hmmm let's see. Had the first kid killed off. Is there any question that the child that is not even his, is not going to be treated any better.

I sense guilt and regret. Settle those issues first before putting himself back into that relationship again I say.

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Fri 09/03/10 08:25 PM

,and i made her abort my child 6 years ago.




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Fri 09/03/10 08:02 PM



Communication is a word that the male species is unfamiliar with. tongue2


Communi-what?

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Fri 09/03/10 07:32 PM
huh?

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Fri 09/03/10 07:30 PM
Welcome!

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Fri 09/03/10 07:27 PM

I've been on Mingle for nearly 3 years now... Hands down, It's a great site! I still remember when it was "Just say hi". Anyway... I have seen this site evolve in many different, exciting, and abstract ways. The forums have changed the most lately in my opinion. I'm not saying it's good, or bad... But it's not what I remember. I know, a lot of the people are different, but it seems like not too many have fun on here anymore? To me, it seems like people are "On guard"? Let's have fun!bigsmile Let's talk about anything, and everything, carefree like the good ole days! I wanna hear anything that makes or has made you all happy lately? So everybody... Be a sport! Tell me what's good!waving



The forums are different. I remember my first threads. It seemed like no matter what I posted, there was always some jerk tearing into me for it. People seem alot more reserved and thoughtful these days on the forums. I like it.

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Fri 09/03/10 07:22 PM
I date for fun. I skipped dating for so many years that now when I get a chance to show somebody a good time, I do my best to make sure it's fun.

Dating is just getting to know somebody. It's not a hassle if you have the time for it.

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Fri 09/03/10 07:14 PM
Good to hear

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Fri 09/03/10 07:10 PM
Lots of communication helps long distance relationships. Also if the two people focus on what they can control and not worry about what they can not, it goes alot more smooth.

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Fri 09/03/10 06:59 PM
Dear Illuminated Daughter of Leod,

Thank you for your first letter. After reading it, I now have Oompa Loompa songs stuck in my head. What is worse, I've had a little to drink tonight so am now hearing a mix of oompa loompa songs from both movies, which is, I have to say, both entertaining and disturbing.

Signed M

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Fri 09/03/10 06:50 PM

love with lust or vice versa?


nope, love always came from my heart, lust someplace lower

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Fri 09/03/10 06:48 PM
hi there and welcome back

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Fri 09/03/10 06:26 PM
After this week, all this man wants is a six pack of Dos Equis Amber to go along with these silly scifi disaster movies.


brb B Double E Double R U N BEERRUN woo hoo drinker :banana: drinker

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Fri 09/03/10 06:16 PM

Me too drinker Have u ever heard that song ,if I have 1 I have 13. Well I guess I'll have to settle for this TEAsad drinker


Nah mine's more like 'I get knocked down, but I get up again' or 'Sippin on Gin and Juice....'

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Fri 09/03/10 06:14 PM

I allway's say Friend's First. That way u don't get hurt and know what to expect:smile:


Too bad I don't date my friends sad2 A motive like that would be trickery

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Fri 09/03/10 06:12 PM

prolly don't listen to any of the other men on here, but do listen to the women - at least when they are being serious.

First don't think of this site as the only means to meeting someone - it is just one means. keep trying. It is a little more of a challenge these days as more and more women enjoy their independence.

I wouldn't worry so much about "keeping" a good woman. Try making friends and seeing where that takes you. Avoid looking too far into the future - enjoy the present and take things one date at a time. That way the women u meet aren't pressured with feeling that u r trying to get serious too soon. jmhoflowerforyou


I agree. Why ask why? Just keep trying. Good answers, there you go Bub, she's got it covered.

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