I think T Mommy is spot on accurate in her answer. After all the question is by construction directed towards an audience that is primarily American, and thus by definition egocentric and sociologically self-preoccupied. Thus most answers are going to fall within a narrow and predictable range between ... "Ugg, I'm the real man hear me rattle my shield and sword", and "Ooh, I'm a princess, and yes you can look under my dress." What is really being asked is what are the two sides of female and male identity found in our culture. The answer is ... in all of us. Peace!