And yes clarity was one of the problems.

You Doug,
If the guy knew he couldn't live up to her standards he shouldn't have wasted her time.
And Ayuachi, when you start dating, you should ask your guy specific questions which would help you to know if he's fishing or looking for a keeper. You might not know if he's telling the truth at first, so study him and you'll learn if he is lying or not after some while. 6 months is good enough to learn him... but if he is a real fake it would be a bit difficult to tell. Like the saying goes - fake it to make it. And lastly, am sorry for the breakup. I hope you focus on yourself in order for you to heal .

I'm at 123 pounds and mine also fluctuates. Gotta start work out back again. Am 5" 3'