Yes I know ...most of us women are strange creatures...but wonderful...lol Ya gotta tell em exactly what you want to know and tell then to ask you exactly what they want to know...tell them how you like to spend your spare time.....what you do with family and/or friends...if you go to worship,sports and find out their idea of a nice time...myself I like to meet after a short period of time to see if there is a chance ... if not just have a nice meet and say goodbye ...nicely.....if you both had a nice time continue talking,writting and hopefully seeing each other again....toni