some men are very shallow.. of course you need somewhat of an attraction but i can be attracted to a skinny girl or big girl it is all in your attitude and how you present yourself...my ex got big after having our kids but i was still madly attracted to her body and her and she gained a lot of weight and if you have kids you know the changes your body makes dear

ive been distant.. like now

bro i have my kids more then half she gets 2000 a month plus ask for more i had to give her an extra 200 yesterday

listen bro as man 2 man leave her now!! or go to court and document everything my ex was violent bro and of course i never hit her but she can punch herself and YOU WILL GET ARRESTED take yourself out of that **** your freedom isnt woth her ****

everyones different like i said its like a big game women can be just as mean and break our hearts aswell dear

thats why love is all a game it just matters on the move you make... me im not mean but if you decide to push n push n push i will cut you off and stop the nice guy game

well lets just say i have my kids cause the court felt that they were best with me, not there mom so my story fits

women are ridiculous they think they can smack you with a bat and your just supposed to stand there and say thank you? im not saying punch her but stop her and of course there is gonna be a struggle so guys watch out for that one scratch your ass will be in jail...i promise i just went thru that **** and i weigh 260 and i fight for fun but in a cage.. i would break her face if i hit her and you cant hit someone you love anyways soo run if it gets to that point where the women is hitting you with bats or other things

maybe he is into you... but it sounds weird i would just let it go and see what happends if hes crazy then run

are you sure he sees others and isnt just saying it to upset you..or make you jealous cause he might think your siiting at home.... well my advice dear is to run in the other direction take it from a guy PLEASE!! you will find someoneits ther just go out and be the life of a crowd... its called the peacock theory if you stand out and are above the other women then you will get attention. if you sit there in a crowd quietly what makes me think that your better then any other one of the women around you.... the biggest thing a man looks and notices is a big smile and laugh

maybe he just gives you attention doll... trust me tell him to fuc@ off hes just a guy and there are plenty of us out there i promise.. be paitient

i would leave him alone its already drama and you have knwon him how long? dont appologize for crap then he knows your in his pocket, tell him like it or leave it buddy sorry its obvious i can get other men why are you special?

but i understand his pain haha my ex is dating another guy named ryan and thats my name aswell and she "accidently" texted me with some nasty **** and i was just like what? and she said oops sorry wrong ryan, i think she did it on purpose crazy *****!

well if theres no ring on your finger and you both agred to see other people then i dont understand the problem... tell him not to be a wet flapping douche bag grow and move on....it sounds like he likes highschool drama

i go to bars and clubs there are still nice guys who go to these places who are tired of being hurt and want to find a good women im just saying you never know what your gonna find if you stay home... there is omeone out there for all of us... i talk to a couple girls but...nothing special or serious but thats because of my doing go have a one night stand .. i did and then met up with the girl a month later and it turned out to be a serious 7 year relationship... take a chance sitting back isnt doing ****... i love you all because we are all on the same journey to find that number 1 person in our lifes

gosh i feel really bad for some of you with no love.. **** go to a bar or club step your game up.. and women just so you know ok you should have no excuse you guys hold the power before the relationship starts your the ones with the vagina ok...

i would say right now a 9 im 25 and newly single so im putting in work lol

i think you need to experience bad love then learn from all the bad loves and re figure whats important and apply it to what you would call love... so i think 25 and up is the best time

theres nothing wrong with being plus size for on and you dont think that there are men of color on this site.. some advice i have dear is to put your self on a pedestool and stand out above the rest its called the peacock theory... if you have an amazing personality and a crazy outgoing open energetic outlook on everything.. i promise you will find a man ..im plus size myself ok so dont stress its all confidence and attitude.. go out with friends clubs bars whatever....

no its not possibl it eats away at people until they blow up and just take off.. its only a fault because you think so it may be nothing to me but a huge deal to you sooo thats your fault