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Sat 07/25/15 01:59 PM


Please I want to know if it's compulsory to bless a marriage
in the church (any church). If yes, what is/are the
consequence(s) for not blessing ones marriage in the
church. Thnx for your contributions!



Maybe it will help if you explain what you mean by "bless a marriage in the church". Do you mean already married couple going to Church to bless an already existing union or do you mean an unmarried pair getting married in Church as a way to get blessing? Your post sounds like the former but I wanted to ask to be sure!


Two individualswho have done their traditional marriage as it is in Nigeria BUT haven't done church marriage.

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Sat 07/25/15 01:50 PM
Please,how can I un friend someone?

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Mon 07/20/15 08:46 PM
A student playing with his teacher's
intelligence asked thus:

STUDENT: Sir, can I ask a question?
TEACHER: Yes!

STUDENT: How can one put an elephant
inside the fridge?
TEACHER: I don't know.

STUDENT: It's easy, you just open the fridge
and put it in there. I have another question!
TEACHER: Ok, ask.

STUDENT: How can one put a donkey inside
the fridge?
TEACHER: It's easy, you just open the fridge
and put it in there.

STUDENT: No sir, you just open the fridge
take out the elephant and put it in there
TEACHER: Ooh... ok!

STUDENT: If all the animals went to the lion's
birthday party with one animal missing,
which animal would it be?
TEACHER: The lion of course because it
would eat all the animals.

STUDENT: No sir, it's the donkey because it's
still inside the fridge.
TEACHER: Are you kidding me?

STUDENT: No sir, one more last question.
TEACHER: Ok!

STUDENT: If there's a river of crocodiles and
you want to cross, how would you?
TEACHER: There's no way, I would need a
ladder to cross.

STUDENT: No sir, you just
swim and cross it because all the animals
went to the lion's birthday party

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Mon 07/20/15 07:31 PM
Edited by Dbenjamin73 on Mon 07/20/15 07:36 PM
One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry.

He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. I t was that chill which only fear can put in you.

He said, I am here to help you, madam. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough.

Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skimming his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.

As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.

Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped.

Bryan never thought twice about being paid.

This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.

He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, And think of me.

He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.

A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan .

After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin.

There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I am helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.

Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard.

She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, Everything is going to be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson.

There is an old saying 'What goes around comes around.' Today, I sent you this story, and I am asking you to pass it on .. Let this light shine.

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Mon 07/20/15 06:57 PM

Men to the Good Girls???

For flirting and all kinds of evil doings, the bad girl goes. But for marriage, hmmm... The good girl is priceless and preferable!

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Mon 07/20/15 06:37 PM
How can one measure his/her IQ

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Mon 07/20/15 06:26 PM
Edited by Dbenjamin73 on Mon 07/20/15 06:28 PM


No

Out of 100eggs, they is likely a probability of getting a good or bad one. So, not all are fake dear. Just be concious but not being too concious. WISH U BEST OF LUCK!

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Mon 07/20/15 05:43 PM
Please I want to know if it's compulsory to bless a marriage
in the church (any church). If yes, what is/are the
consequence(s) for not blessing ones marriage in the
church. Thnx for your contributions!

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Mon 07/20/15 05:41 PM
Ok thanks!

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Mon 07/20/15 05:02 PM

that list is endless
all depends on your religion

I meant from a christian view CHRISTIANITY

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Mon 07/20/15 04:54 PM
Edited by Dbenjamin73 on Mon 07/20/15 04:55 PM
Please I want to know if it's compulsory to bless a marriage in the church (any church). If yes, what is/are the consequence(s) for not blessing ones marriage in the church. Thnx for your contributions!