"Ifyou're you ever get time, like their mom actually takes 'em for the weekend or something, you should look if you can. I didn't, and now I am looking way late in life. It is worth it in the end, but would have been more pleasant if I could've found a single mommy to mend two families...."



My wife decided she wanted a different life and left me with a 1 1/2 and 4 year old. Raised them by myself for 5 years after the divorce finalized. I remarried and the new wife even adopted my kids. Now at almost 16 and 18, SHE decided that she wanted the party/bar scene, so another divorce goes down... I don't understand what the deal is. Anyway, I have 3 more years before the youngest is "out of the house" as she was born late in the year. The kids are pretty hacked about it all and really don't want anything to do with her now, so looks like I'm back to single dad status. I'm definitely up for dating, but I'm pretty gun shy for getting serious with someone again.