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Mon 02/22/10 10:42 PM

Are you a psychologist JAG?


If you are I have some questions about my cigarette smoking which is an addiction. I stopped 4.5 months ago and I am still de-toxing, is this normal??

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Mon 02/22/10 10:38 PM
Are you a psychologist JAG?

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Mon 02/22/10 10:27 PM



I got an offer the other day for an online date...
To actually set a date and time for an online date.
Since I'm relatively new can someone please explain
this to me.. what exactly is this?



Ladylid I have no idea, it does not sound right to me. Could the person in question just call you by phone?

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Mon 02/22/10 10:18 PM
Hello and Welcome, it has been raining all day here. Worse winter ever in AZ, what happened??
Have fun on Mingle flowerforyou

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Mon 02/22/10 10:13 PM
You become humble flowerforyou

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Mon 02/22/10 10:07 PM

I want a degree from Harvard University.


You would do well there Calleigh, you would like Cambridge too. flowerforyou

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Mon 02/22/10 10:05 PM
Paint as many oil paintings as I can.


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Mon 02/22/10 08:29 PM
Edited by daytime on Mon 02/22/10 08:30 PM

I dated a guy who had two kids i dont have any kids it didnt really bother me. He had an ex (the kids mother)that constantly called i am a very laid back person so i let it go but after awhile i noticed he would let me go so he could take her call and it became less about me more about her. I just backed off left it at that. Cant have three people in a relationship what he did to me was unfair because he led me to believe all that drama was behind him she (besides his kids) were not a part of his life anymore but i felt like the third wheel and like i was intruding.


I had something very similiar but even more dramatic happen to me. He also had two kids and his ex was still attached to him and was outraged that I was in the picture. She came and went in his house as she pleased!! When I said enough and requested the door be locked at all times, she threatened to break down the door and throw objects thur the glass plate windows unless she was allowed into the house. Whew !!! Enough said, relationship over. By the way the kids were in High School.:angry: sad2

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Mon 02/22/10 03:36 PM

what do you consider maturity?


When you truly know the meaning of forgiveness. flowerforyou

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Mon 02/22/10 03:34 PM
Spring cleaning ?? LOL. I was just concerned about re-arranging some of the things on my coffee table. Good Luck with your cleaning. flowerforyou

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Mon 02/22/10 03:09 PM
What I really do not like is a profile with no pic and just a few sentences in the profile. I have received a few emails like this.
WTF. I guess very lazy or what?

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Mon 02/22/10 02:56 PM



Cliches, vapidity, and "I don't know what to write here" don't do anything for me.


LOL... don't forget about the "It's really hard for me to talk about myself".... laugh


Yeah, that's on about 87% of them -- "The hardest thing in the world is for a person to talk about themselves" -- I wonder what world THAT is....?




I think some people really may not know themselves, have not done the work of self-examination. Sad but true.

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Mon 02/22/10 02:33 PM
In general your behavior should not make anyone else feel uncomfortable or disregarded

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Mon 02/22/10 02:13 PM

I see this used in 92.3% of all profiles I read -- "I am the most unique person you'll ever meet." Then they go on to talk about the beach, the little black dress/jeans paradox, the glass being half full, the mandatory "laid back and easy going" commentary, "I like to go out or stay in," "I love my friends and family," and the ever-popular "I'm a single mother of three kids and THEY ARE MY WORLD."

I was raised in an environment where "unique" meant something other than "I am exactly the same as every other boring shlub in the world who is too lazy to write three original sentences about myself." Words change, over time, though, and it's entirely possible (it isn't really, but the appearance of diplomacy can't really hurt here, probably) that "unique" now means something quite the opposite of what it originally was intended to convey.

After all, we have terms like "inflammable" and "flammable" that sound like they should be opposites but probably aren't, unless those have been changed, too, while I wasn't looking.

So, I looked up the definition of "unique" in a couple of the on line dictionaries, and I got this: "radically distinctive and without equal; being the only one of its kind; unequaled, unparalleled or unmatched."

Well, I think we can identify the problem here. The people who are claiming to be "unique" have no idea what the word actually means.

But I suppose that's to be expected, seeing as how most of them claim to be "hot" and "sexy," too....!!



I agree Lex I think people using the word unique to describe themselves have no idea what the word means. If they do understand the true definition they are very egotistical unless they have a ton of information to justify their claim.

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Sun 02/21/10 03:02 PM

Me thinks whatever is comfy with both parties JMO


Totally agree flowerforyou

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Sun 02/21/10 02:58 PM
Always looking for keys. smokin

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Sat 02/20/10 10:41 PM
Edited by daytime on Sat 02/20/10 10:51 PM
The cosmetic companies have "makeup" for men and have for sometime. So maybe you men are wearing make-up now as well as women. drinker

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Wed 02/17/10 09:41 PM


Sweet! Thank you.flowerforyou


yvw, i love that site!


Etsy is my favorite site, you can find the best things. drinker

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Wed 02/17/10 09:21 PM

Doesn't LTR mean long term relationship? Or does it mean something else here?


I have to go and fix it, I meant he lived over 1,000 miles away. Sorry about that. :smile:

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Wed 02/17/10 09:17 PM
Edited by daytime on Wed 02/17/10 09:21 PM
This does not always happen online!!! I knew someone and we had real life encounters, and vacations together. WE DID NOT MEET ONLINE. It was an LDR. I finally figured out that he very comfortable with the LDR part. Yes some meetings, but they were very rare. I believe he just wanted the feeling that he had a g/f without any commitment and very little contact. He liked talking on the phone. grumble
Maybe this is all some men/women want what

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