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Mon 06/22/15 10:31 AM





I've been separated for almost 4 years. I'm open minded and outspoken at work and in public, yet i am timid when i see someone i like. It seems i make everyone laugh as i have a great sense of humor. I see guys every day with pretty ladies. I just wonder..... "Why not me"??


I believe in perfect timing, in a perfect place with the perfect person. :) Good luck!


perfection doesn't exist, and if your waiting for timing, your cutting the probability of finding someone by about 80%... meaning that if your not in the exact right place at the exact right time, it won't happen...


Maybe it's just me. LOL


no blame intended, just saying it's really a numbers type deal, the more people you meet, the better chances of finding the one thats right (or closest to it) for you...flowerforyou

your very pretty and seem to have a great attitude, you shouldn't have to have a hard time in finding a great guy...:wink:


I understand your point. But truth be told, I am having a hard time finding a guy. But thanks, had a little boost on my ego. LOL

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Mon 06/22/15 10:19 AM



I've been separated for almost 4 years. I'm open minded and outspoken at work and in public, yet i am timid when i see someone i like. It seems i make everyone laugh as i have a great sense of humor. I see guys every day with pretty ladies. I just wonder..... "Why not me"??


I believe in perfect timing, in a perfect place with the perfect person. :) Good luck!


perfection doesn't exist, and if your waiting for timing, your cutting the probability of finding someone by about 80%... meaning that if your not in the exact right place at the exact right time, it won't happen...


Maybe it's just me. LOL

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Mon 06/22/15 10:05 AM

Ohhh.. and you started off so strong..
Hmm.. .... I was hoping for poetry..
. something beautiful and uplifting..
but instead... can we talk anything about you...hmm..... words do we no longer know how to use them..
.. do they carry no weight.... have they become as meaningless.... as the last flicker of light.... do we no longer know how to reach out ..to touch someone with just our words.. .
... must.. it all get water down to a few basic.... words....hmm..... articulation.... linguist.....hmm.... my ears ache for .. words....mmm.

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Ahhhh.. Nice!

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Mon 06/22/15 10:04 AM

I'm still looking for a longterm relationship (18-20) message me sometime? C:


May the odds be ever in your favor! G'luck! :D

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Mon 06/22/15 10:01 AM

I've been separated for almost 4 years. I'm open minded and outspoken at work and in public, yet i am timid when i see someone i like. It seems i make everyone laugh as i have a great sense of humor. I see guys every day with pretty ladies. I just wonder..... "Why not me"??


I believe in perfect timing, in a perfect place with the perfect person. :) Good luck!

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Mon 06/22/15 09:57 AM

I am a Japanese fan boy so I only deal with imports and watch my fair dose of anime!


Fellow Otaku in the house! :D

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Mon 06/22/15 09:55 AM

by the way, that's a ramhorn turbo manifold for a d-series civic in my hand in that pic :D


To be honest, when I looked at your pic I was like "What the heck is he holding?" but then I saw your other post. LOL

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Sun 06/21/15 10:16 AM

Yes..lol.. but the only equation . that needs to be applied is balance...
. too much of NE one good thing is still too much....yes..


True. drinker drinker

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Sun 06/21/15 10:15 AM

love


Nice! :smile: :smile:

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Sun 06/21/15 10:14 AM



.. easy my career.... what is love.. if that is all you have..... and besides I love my career.... but you need balance...hmmm... and if you are reading this right now..lol.. and you know who you are..lol.. I'm working on it..lmao:angel:


True. I personally think you need balance. But sometimes our world is too shitty unfair. In the end you can't have both. Either one will create complications on the other. :D

complications do not cancel one or the other out. that is why we have compromise. life is filled with it, so do the best you can to enjoy all of the things you desire...


Your optimism is admirable. :banana:

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Sun 06/21/15 10:09 AM

Love is nice.
But, it didn't buy land or houses for
Me.




Hahaha, I always find it funny when the song "Love will keep us alive" play on the radio. Damn musicians had their heads in the air.

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Sun 06/21/15 10:07 AM

well then according to you! there is no right or wrong.. answer.... it is like asking.. if you could only have one..
food or air..... either way you are screwed..lol


Well, I think career and love are too different things and unlike food and air which is a requirement for human beings to live, you can live w/o it. Hahaha, a little bit mind exercise won't hurt anybody.

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Sun 06/21/15 10:02 AM

.. easy my career.... what is love.. if that is all you have..... and besides I love my career.... but you need balance...hmmm... and if you are reading this right now..lol.. and you know who you are..lol.. I'm working on it..lmao:angel:


True. I personally think you need balance. But sometimes our world is too shitty unfair. In the end you can't have both. Either one will create complications on the other. :D

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Sun 06/21/15 10:00 AM

both...see, that was easy!


Haha. I forgot to mention say, you only need one. :D

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Sun 06/21/15 09:55 AM
I find this difficult to answer. How about you folks? :)

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Sun 06/21/15 09:50 AM

hello can anyone explain me that exactly love means whats ...???? m waiting


Love is painful. That's my take on it.

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Thu 06/11/15 09:34 PM

For those who loves anime, coplay, japanese culture and...

For those who seek relationship from another Otaku..


Tbh, I kinda laughed with thy user name, I've been to Japan and I think your name involves bosom. :D

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Thu 06/11/15 09:32 PM


Well, the title says it all.
I'm a busy bee and when I do something, I make sure it is proactive and productive. It got to the point where it was already unhealthy. Not only to my body but also with my relationships. So, a friend whom I confided my problems asked me what will I do if I only had 24 hours left. Well, to be honest I found it hard to give an answer back. How about you?



Sera, the best advice I ever got from a doctor was this:

You can be the greatest, most respected, hustling, go getter, indispensable employee they got, but if you died today they would just have somebody replace you tomorrow.

Point is - take care of yourself AND enjoy life. If you have anytime left over, work a little and pay the bills :wink:

I watched several people spend their last minute on earth stressed by their job and drop to the floor leaving coworkers to call for help.

Life is short - Date a fat guy! ohwell Still no, huh? :laughing: Can't blame a man for trying!


I understand, I'm kinda a workaholic, so being serious in here I kinda felt and regret that I should've given more life to my past. Now I'm stuck with work 24 hours and barely have fun. Hahaha. Maybe I should date a fat guy. Lemme think. LOL

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Sun 06/07/15 07:40 AM

Get papers in order
spend day with my sons
telling them how profoundly proud I am of them and the men they have become
forgive my ex husband for leaving me again and again
for choosing his job over his family
Let go pain and anger that is often my driving force and source of my motvation to keep pushing myself


:smile: :smile: :smile: :smile:

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Sun 06/07/15 07:38 AM

If I only had a day left to live, I would 'pray with all my inner strength' (for one last time) to be 'able to give up everything I own in whichever life, to know 'someone' deeper in a next human life...!':heart: :smile: flowerforyou


Awww. Thumbs Up! :D