well i have no idea why u are being so rude then, however. She was being very nice, actually. She asked if you'd be interested in meeting up if they were in your area. yes and i answered, adding 'no disrespect' then she got rude. maybe u should re read? |
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well i have no idea why u are being so rude then, however. Ditto. i am not being rude, u asked a question i answered saying no disrespect and u jumped down my throat! go figure. |
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well i have no idea why u are being so rude then, however.
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Im not being touchy at all, it appears to me, that YOU, r the kind of person who doesnt wanna give anyone the time of day. It makes no difference to me if i never meet u, i just found wat u said to be rude, and i said so, very unsociable. There are always going to be people on these sites who are not social. I think that's why some are here. It's safe and for them it means they don't have to go out and meet anyone. You're not going to be able to change their minds, either. i am social, i just don't do strangers (and ppl on the net are strangers) and i don't do drinkin/coffee/druggy/ so bars/clubs cafe's etc are not my thing. i do other outdoor things with my friends and i'm happy the way i am and the way my life goes, whats wrong with that? Funnily enough, i dont do strangers either......hence why i didnt accept ur friends invite way back. well u are still a stranger to me now, i don't know u or anyone else from adam on here. u just prefer to do things differently but if i'd known it was gonna give u such issues then i would never have given u a friend invite . |
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Im not being touchy at all, it appears to me, that YOU, r the kind of person who doesnt wanna give anyone the time of day. It makes no difference to me if i never meet u, i just found wat u said to be rude, and i said so, very unsociable. There are always going to be people on these sites who are not social. I think that's why some are here. It's safe and for them it means they don't have to go out and meet anyone. You're not going to be able to change their minds, either. i am social, i just don't do strangers (and ppl on the net are strangers) and i don't do drinkin/coffee/druggy/ so bars/clubs cafe's etc are not my thing. i do other outdoor things with my friends and i'm happy the way i am and the way my life goes, whats wrong with that? You just said a couple posts above that you don't socialize. Which is it? If you don't want to meet people from here, then don't meet people from here. Simple as that. no i said i socialise house to house. |
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Im not being touchy at all, it appears to me, that YOU, r the kind of person who doesnt wanna give anyone the time of day. It makes no difference to me if i never meet u, i just found wat u said to be rude, and i said so, very unsociable. There are always going to be people on these sites who are not social. I think that's why some are here. It's safe and for them it means they don't have to go out and meet anyone. You're not going to be able to change their minds, either. i am social, i just don't do strangers (and ppl on the net are strangers) and i don't do drinkin/coffee/druggy/ so bars/clubs cafe's etc are not my thing. i do other outdoor things with my friends and i'm happy the way i am and the way my life goes, whats wrong with that? |
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no i'm sorry but i wouldn't - no disrespect.
Thats rather rude, and quite frankly i dont understand it....if u wanna be friends with ppl online, why would u not meet them in RL? like i said no disrespect but i not only don't see it as rude i also don't care if it is. i have enough friends in RL and i don't do the pubs/clubs/coffee thing with them so why would i with someone from online? I'm just here to chat with ppl, nothing more,nothing less and i'm sorry if that offends but it's not intentional Kinda glad i never accepted ur friends invite now....I guess if im not good enough to be friends in real life, im not good enough to be ur online friend either. thats fine with me too then coz if someone doesn't see things the way u do then clearly u don't wanna give them the time of day. dunno why u are being so touchy about it? we can't all be the same. ah well never mind. Im not being touchy at all, it appears to me, that YOU, r the kind of person who doesnt wanna give anyone the time of day. It makes no difference to me if i never meet u, i just found wat u said to be rude, and i said so, very unsociable. and i said from the outset no disrespect and i mean that. i don't socialise and have no problem with that. it makes no difference to me either and likewise i found what u said rude so its different perspectives. |
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no i'm sorry but i wouldn't - no disrespect.
Thats rather rude, and quite frankly i dont understand it....if u wanna be friends with ppl online, why would u not meet them in RL? like i said no disrespect but i not only don't see it as rude i also don't care if it is. i have enough friends in RL and i don't do the pubs/clubs/coffee thing with them so why would i with someone from online? I'm just here to chat with ppl, nothing more,nothing less and i'm sorry if that offends but it's not intentional Do you just not get together with your friends at all? in RL? yes but we socialise from house to house. |
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lol so that isn't the same thing, give me a break. you meet some guy and there is something minute you don't like, you don't give it a second thought cause you aren't shallow, right? lol. no coz if there was something i didn't like that would be the end of it (i'm so shallow i wouldn't even continue the date, lol)i wouldn't go away and think maybe i like/don't like this or that will i give it a go. if it aint workin for me it aint workin is what i'm sayin and i wouldn't say i don't like ur 'xyz', altho god only knows i've wanted to!!!!. ok i fess up i can be VERY shallow oh you little *****, you got me all pissed off, just to finally admit your shallow.....I am going to give him a chance despite the teeth, cause as I said he is attractive. That and we are both on the same page and want to take things slow. aww it was fun tho? no it depends if it's something (say teeth) that can be changed then it's ok and i don't rush it. if it's something that can't be changed then i'm shallow - and there is one thing in that category i wont deal with!!!!!! |
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no i'm sorry but i wouldn't - no disrespect.
Thats rather rude, and quite frankly i dont understand it....if u wanna be friends with ppl online, why would u not meet them in RL? like i said no disrespect but i not only don't see it as rude i also don't care if it is. i have enough friends in RL and i don't do the pubs/clubs/coffee thing with them so why would i with someone from online? I'm just here to chat with ppl, nothing more,nothing less and i'm sorry if that offends but it's not intentional Kinda glad i never accepted ur friends invite now....I guess if im not good enough to be friends in real life, im not good enough to be ur online friend either. thats fine with me too then coz if someone doesn't see things the way u do then clearly u don't wanna give them the time of day. dunno why u are being so touchy about it? we can't all be the same. ah well never mind. |
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no i'm sorry but i wouldn't - no disrespect.
Thats rather rude, and quite frankly i dont understand it....if u wanna be friends with ppl online, why would u not meet them in RL? like i said no disrespect but i not only don't see it as rude i also don't care if it is. i have enough friends in RL and i don't do the pubs/clubs/coffee thing with them so why would i with someone from online? I'm just here to chat with ppl, nothing more,nothing less and i'm sorry if that offends but it's not intentional |
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lol so that isn't the same thing, give me a break. you meet some guy and there is something minute you don't like, you don't give it a second thought cause you aren't shallow, right? lol. no coz if there was something i didn't like that would be the end of it (i'm so shallow i wouldn't even continue the date, lol)i wouldn't go away and think maybe i like/don't like this or that will i give it a go. if it aint workin for me it aint workin is what i'm sayin and i wouldn't say i don't like ur 'xyz', altho god only knows i've wanted to!!!!. ok i fess up i can be VERY shallow |
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nope and have no intentions of either We will meet one day in 5 yrs? |
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see i'm not as brave as Lex, after meeting 2 people from the net i decided psychosis wasn't my thing and like i said there WILL NOT be a 3rd! Thats a shame, ur only about 45-hr drive away from me, and why wouldnt u meet ppl just to be sociable? does it have to be dating? Ive met ppl who r on here, but it was from when we were on another site, we had a big meet in Michigan, and i think there was 31 of us. nope i would not even meet to be sociable So if i was in ur area, u wouldnt meet me or Dan? I ask that cos we have a friend who lives in ur neck of the woods. no i'm sorry but i wouldn't - no disrespect. |
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nope coz i am fussy not shallow!
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Is It A Sign?
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ditch the b!tch
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see i'm not as brave as Lex, after meeting 2 people from the net i decided psychosis wasn't my thing and like i said there WILL NOT be a 3rd! Thats a shame, ur only about 45-hr drive away from me, and why wouldnt u meet ppl just to be sociable? does it have to be dating? Ive met ppl who r on here, but it was from when we were on another site, we had a big meet in Michigan, and i think there was 31 of us. nope i would not even meet to be sociable |
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yeah his teeth, it is not shallow. It is a matter of attraction. it is very shallow, minor details like that are fixable, anyway ur clearly not 'attracted' to him in the 1st place or it wouldn't be an issue so move on but no need to be cruel about his teeth! We cannot help what gets our mojo flowing. Can you? Would you date a woman who had a physical issue that made you ill? Even if it was "fixable"? This lady is not at all being cruel. She's being honest and asking for feedback. If she was cruel, she wouldn't have mentioned it the way she did. Why are you attacking her? well we will have to agree to disagree, clearly she has no attraction for him anyway. oh for the record NO i would NOT date a woman PERIOD! SHE does have an attraction towards....but his teeth do bother me a bit..he is nice so far and I hope to look past all that. I am sure there is something about me that bothers him. something about u bothers him? hmmmm, i wonder what that could be!!! |
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well we will have to agree to disagree, clearly she has no attraction for him anyway. oh for the record NO i would NOT date a woman PERIOD! I'm sorry. I was not aware of your sexual orientation? maybe my name gives it away? duh Nope... it doesn't. If your name was homosexualguy I would understand. Gay actually means happy. Duh!!! I'm sorry, you know it all. You got her figured out, you're frustrated I didn't assume you are homosexual... Whatever. There is no need to call this lady cruel though. gay***cheery: bright and pleasant; promoting a feeling of cheer; "a cheery hello"; "a gay sunny room"; "a sunny smile" full of or showing high-spirited merriment; "when hearts were young and gay"; "a poet could not but be gay, in such a jocund company"- Wordsworth; "the jolly crowd at the reunion"; "jolly old Saint Nick"; "a jovial old gentleman"; "have a merry Christmas"; "peals of merry laughter"; "a mirthful ... given to social pleasures often including dissipation; "led a gay Bohemian life"; "a gay old rogue with an eye for the ladies" brave: brightly colored and showy; "girls decked out in brave new dresses"; "brave banners flying"; "`braw' is a Scottish word"; "a dress a bit too gay for her years"; "birds with gay plumage" offering fun and gaiety; "a festive (or festal) occasion"; "gay and exciting night life"; "a merry evening" The homosexual portion is at the end of SOME sections, not all. what planet have u spent the last 4 decades on? and what has 'braw' got to do with anything? - or are u gonna tell me how to spk scottish now?(that we could have fun with!) i think if someone shallow told u ur teeth were bad u would find it cruel. besides i'm not the one coming on the internet saying 'i don't like this guys teeth! if there is something ur not happy with then u don't date them surely? and pray tell where frustrated came from? on 2nd thoughts don't bother more than one shallow person in a day is a wee bit much for my braw teeth to grind over! |
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