To complete who I am!

I have to agree with CrystalFairy, looking for someone because you feel you need someone is the wrong time to look. Looking because you would like to have a partner is the time to look. That is why I am on here looking for a partner. I think it would be nice to be able to share things with someone. Going for walks, watching fireflys in the summer evenings, sitting by a campfire on a cool fall night, watching snowfall in winter, gazing at the moon and stars on clear night, or sitting on a swing side by side cozily chatting about the day. Except for the last thing, I can do all those things by myself, however having a partner to share those things would be rather nice.

I don't think we were meant to live out our lives alone. For me, having a man as my best friend would be wonderful. In addition I know a few things about myself and just wishing those thoughts away doesn't work for me. I want to be in a relationship that includes: trust, fidelity, communication, passion and worth more than anything materialistic. Men might not understand this but I would love to have a man in my bed every night. Sex would be great but there's also that wonderful feeling of knowing that the man beside you loves you and wouldn't allow anything to happen to you. He would be your man that would keep you safe. As it is now, I wake up sometimes scared of a noise and all I have is myself to be strong and brave. Thing is, I am not brave or strong. So, yes, I do need a man in my life---forever.

I am delighted, because I can never get enough ribs.



Uh, just out of curiosity, what does barbecued food have to do with dating?

Well unless she says she is your missing rib...(& you want her to be)... otherwise, NO she isn't.

Westerners rarely use that expression.
They tend to use, " Soul Mate".


Personally, I don't use any of those.
Because people love who they choose to love & can love more than once.

yes is true

Had a good paying job once as an environmental inspector for a construction company. I got tired of constantly be told to go "F" myself when I informed them we were out of compliance and then getting blamed when the project was getting fined for the things I had already told them about. I now clean restrooms and make a fraction of what I was making but I'm 100 times happier.

took me a while to learn that lesson. I stayed way too long. Now I know better. Its not about bad people v good people, its about not being a match/compatible. You gotta go if its ugly.

You cant teach someone to be what you want them to be or punish them for not being what you want them to be.

You can have open conversation with them about what you both like and what makes you both happy and what makes you both unhappy, and if its something that works, great. teamwork.

Oh i see. How did you felt the first timé it happened in your life?



of course. thats how I was able to answer in this thread.

Klc yeah that's true but can i ask you a question?





Grateful to know they were the wrong one. Time to move on. And 'turn the other cheek' doesnt mean continue to date them. Just means dont seek revenge. right?

Have a frank discussion with her. Sit down and ask her to tell you what the problem is and what you can do to fix it. Obviously she blames you for something and it might even be a misunderstanding. In my experience, issues arise when opportunities lack to have an open discussion about work expectations. Stay polite and focused on solving the issues.

Mommastep indeed we click bro



We click!!!

Thanks bro the truth is that i hardly complain even when am hurt but is just that at times it's good to talk so that people won't take the advantage of quietness to moles you



Seek a counselor and learn how to control your temper as others can only do so with your permission but you feel that others should not make you angry but it is you who choose to respond with anger and not another response.. Blaming others for ones feelings is a way to stay immature and not be in charge of ones feelings so I hope you get help and learn how to prevent others from having control over your feelings..

Yesh of course she is but this one is becoming unbearable to be honest


I'm kind and gentle but extremely short-tempered

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So its your manager.. heh