I just joined and am lookin for friends, someone to date, or more -- whatever the powers that be decide lol. hope to hear from some people!

Bozo Buckets!

Depends on what kind of woman you're talking to. Chances are if she's lookin in a mirror every 5 seconds; a woman who's into herself first, her hair second, her clothes third, and her nails fourth, chances are she's too shallow and insecure in herself to love ANY man, and she'll listen to society's call to be perfect and with a perfect-looking man.

I have dated guys who were bigger than I am, and in general, what the world views as "big". Like many of the women have posted, it's more about confidence and personality than anything. Big guys may not be a woman's "type" per se, but it's generally not a breaker. At least not for me or for my girl friends. So steer clear of conceited women.