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Sat 04/05/08 03:57 AM
Thanks You all

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Fri 04/04/08 05:29 PM
Edited by rarerose on Fri 04/04/08 05:30 PM

Maternal intincts are great but before you get too mushy about how wonderful it will be and find yourself MAYBE rationalizeing away your good judgement in a weak moment of enevy or dreamyness go out and volunteer where things are not so rosey posey when it comes to parenting. Talk to some Moms that fight the good fight day in and day out with a special needs child or maybe a child that came a little earlier than planned. Look around your life and see what you are really willing to give up to buy food, formula, diapers,clothes, and toys. If you can't support yourself for at least four years with no one else paying your way on what you have saved walk don't run to a good OBGYN and learn what you have to do to stay childless. Mothering is wonderful but it is a bitter pain to see the baby you know you are responsible do without anything it wants much less what it needs. Read everything you can, babysit, volunteer in childcare centers for Homeless Moms shelters, really listen to what your Mom tells you about the real deal. Then if you are ready go for it. It will take every bit of energy and love and a pound of your heart every day. I am not saying that is a bad thing in any way but do it with the rose colored glasses off. EVERY child deserves no less. Remember There is no I or ME in Motherhood. It is all about OTHER.


Well for starters Im a nanny, and i have worked at the child advocacy center and with kids with special needs as well...I got my CNA in high school so ive worked Labor and Delivery (seen all the ways a baby can be born) I've worked in the NICU (newborn intensive care unit) and seen the struggles some have to go through, ive done more in my 22 years than most people my age....I know being a parent is work in its self and isnt always rainbows and sunshine but even with the darkest of days they will be my baby my pride and joy my piece of art that no matter what will always be taken care of.

But like I said I still have time...I want one before Im 30 but im not goin to rush into anything to make that happen, I want it to be with the right person.

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Fri 04/04/08 05:07 PM
Edited by rarerose on Fri 04/04/08 05:07 PM
Sitting on the porch each day
at exactly six o'clock.
Within his hands he always held
an old flowerpot.
In the pot he grew a flower
his wifes favorite kind.
He'd sit and hum
their favorite tune
as tears he would cry.
Then he'd watch the day turn night
behind the tall tall willow
but one night he placed the pot
in his wooden chair
and sat beneath the weeping branches
as if she were there.
The following morn
the man was gone
along with that old pot
but in the field where he had sat
was a sea of familiar flowers.
...All in bloom and free.

Krystle McGee

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Fri 04/04/08 04:50 PM



I hope you keep a journal of all these good feelings because when you get to be a parent there are days when you will need it.


I do actually...I thought people would think it was strange to be talkin about my future children...I already wrote them poems and am writing my own lullaby's to sing to them....I cant stop smiling and crying over the fact that one day i will get to hold them and love them in such a way that I cant even imagine the kind of joy they will bring....My day will come...eventually....

(((Denise))) We all know you love your children so much you always talk about them. HMM and is your oldest a guy bigsmile cause I still havent found that special someone yet lol blushing



Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Ms Beautiful,, Yes he is a Guy,, Yet very happily married,, and has blessed me with two grandsons,,,,
Your Mr One & Only will see the beauty I see and with patience and time,, Ya I know who wants to here that,,,lol,,, He will find the Soul in you and Love you Deeper than no other,,

Hugs sweetie,,, flowerforyou :heart:


Oh im not worried I know my guy is out there somewhere thinkin of me too.

Thank You all... (((zanne46))) Im so sorry to hear about your baby doll...lol i still sleep my teddy gives me something to hold blushing

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Thu 04/03/08 11:12 PM
Silly Putty can stick to almost anything

No matter how many times you ask "Do you have to go to the bathroom?" they will always go when its least convenient.

No matter how many times they have seen the movie they will always ask the same questions.

Letting your kid ride their bike while you go on a walk is never a good idea since you have to lug it back home.

Play-Dough can be used as ear plugs but the doctor has to take them out.

Finger paint can be used on anything cause it says washable

Getting dog food that looks like Cocoa Puffs is a bad idea

Eating one cheeto can make everything orange

Squirt bottles can be the new fun toy

It is possible to bite your own finger so hard it bleeds while you are eating if your too busy watching tv.


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Thu 04/03/08 10:43 PM
aw wow that was great flowerforyou

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Thu 04/03/08 10:38 PM

I hope you keep a journal of all these good feelings because when you get to be a parent there are days when you will need it.


I do actually...I thought people would think it was strange to be talkin about my future children...I already wrote them poems and am writing my own lullaby's to sing to them....I cant stop smiling and crying over the fact that one day i will get to hold them and love them in such a way that I cant even imagine the kind of joy they will bring....My day will come...eventually....

(((Denise))) We all know you love your children so much you always talk about them. HMM and is your oldest a guy bigsmile cause I still havent found that special someone yet lol blushing

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Thu 04/03/08 11:52 AM

flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

U will be a wonderful mommy one day..your future children will be blessed...

I love my sons..more than anything in this world....

My sons are grown...

1 a USMC

2nd is going off to college soon to study criminal justice...

i miss them terribly..

Ok going to stop now..or I will cry..and I don't want to ..today...

nice post sugar..:smile: :wink: happy flowerforyou


Aw cry with me then lol I couldnt even type this without crying, or how about a hug nothing beats a hug (((HUG)))

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Thu 04/03/08 11:39 AM
I just wanted to say that I envy the kind of love parents hold for their children. I believe there is no greater love than that between a parent and child. I pray to experiance that kind of love someday. To hold a child that is a part of you and feel such joy.

I know Im young and have time to have children later but as crazy as it sounds I can already feel the love and joy they carry and if i can feel that so strongly for someone who doesnt exist yet then i cant wait to feel what you all must be feeling right now.

There are so many people who dont understand that the life they brought into this world is so precious and wonderful they dont truly understand how important their love is on their child so I want to say thank you to all of you who do understand and appreciate the gift you brought into this world because we can really learn from them as well.

Thank You flowerforyou
-KK

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Wed 04/02/08 03:54 PM
thanks all flowerforyou

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Tue 04/01/08 09:18 PM


blushing well you gotta hop over here and claim yours bigsmile
Im on my waybigsmile


WoooHooo bigsmile blushing

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Tue 04/01/08 09:06 PM


always always always want hugs I LOVE hugs (((HUGS))) for everyone flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
I wanna hug herlove

blushing well you gotta hop over here and claim yours bigsmile

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Tue 04/01/08 08:56 PM
always always always want hugs I LOVE hugs (((HUGS))) for everyone flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Tue 04/01/08 07:46 PM
Confused...
standing alone
at the fork in the road
The wind blows me one way
my feet go another
and my heart yearns for one of her own.
So i sit with eyes closed
as i try to hear the melody
Im supposed to follow
it plays only for me
only i can pick it out
as you have one as well.
mine is soft like a lullaby
filled with hope and joy of new days
I sway back and forth
I can hear it play
but it doesnt play from ahead
it plays from within telling me
i have to choose:
go the path others want,
stay straight on my ways,
or let my heart lead me.
I take my step and am on my way
...Confident

Krystle McGee

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Sun 03/30/08 11:10 AM
I have always been curious about it

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Sat 03/29/08 11:00 PM
"You never tolded me i couldnt"

Or "what is your name? TOY STORY!"

"How old am i?
"21"
"wow your realdy ooold"

or they say "yeah a long time ago we went to the a park and and and it had water and and slides and and....."
they went just yesterday a long time for them i guess


I loooove kids they are so cute

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Sat 03/29/08 06:24 PM
only been on one my entire life

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Sat 03/29/08 12:11 PM
I believe in discipline but not back handing...thats just too far...you werent in the wrong in my opinion

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Fri 03/28/08 03:40 PM
giraffe

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Tue 03/25/08 04:55 PM
Why did you do it
it's so selfish and crude
what possible good did it do.
You may have felt pain before
but now you suffer even more
with a life of eternal hell.
You left me
You hurt me
now I weep in blood
as part of me is missing.

Krystle McGee

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