My personal view is to read the profiles, BUT I have seen a lot of ladies that post a picture and add nothing in their profile, is the honest truth. So after a while you stop reading which is not the correct way, maybe you are caught up on circumstances.

Then you are a weak link, your being dominated. Once you give away your dominion to another person you will be dominated.

Tomorrow is not promise to know one. Every time you wake up is an opportunity to choose if you want to stay suffering, abuse, among other example. Persons at one point and time like to be hurt or abuse. There are different ways to take that load from your mind.
PRAY, sometimes persons try to fix`s what cannot be fix and you find yourself; with depression. We need a higher answers when darkness takes over your thoughts and you cant find a way out. If you find yourself in this situation is not your will, if you want out of such bad relationship let God do his will and not yours. Then you will see how everything fall into places that you never imagine.

Then you are being a slave of your own self petty.

The main answer is not complicated is called interest, as simple as that.