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Topic: no pics in profile...
lilangel2's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:47 AM
Ok ladies, what do you think about someone with no picture in their profile? To me it sends up all sorts of red flags...but the main red flag it sends up to me is MARRIED! grumble

Lily0923's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:47 AM
Or Ugly as sin.....

no photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:48 AM
I've said it before.... lonely Russian spies..... Need to keep it discreet, for security reasons.... laugh laugh laugh

recentfree's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:48 AM
It scares me when ladys have no pic, what you tryin to hide loldrinker :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: happy

Lily0923's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:49 AM

I've said it before.... lonely Russian spies..... Need to keep it discreet, for security reasons.... laugh laugh laugh


I might start talking to blue boxes in that case....bigsmile

no photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:54 AM
Sometimes there are circumstances beyond one's control so here is the msg.I placed in my profile dear.
p.s.I have removed my photo from my profile because this site is not verifying my e-mail,so I do not want my photo left here indefinitely in the event that I can not access my acct.I will return it temp.upon request.;=)flowerforyou

willywonka0675's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:54 AM
Well I'm not a lady, but since your all so negative this morning I'm gonna respond to this anyways...

There could be several respectable reasons also, just off the top of my head...
-Not owning digital camera (yes some ppl still perfer film, i know its hard to believe)
-Shy
-Wants to be judged by who they are, not how thier nice thier "assets" are.

They say you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, I think that applies to even if the cover is blank.

JaceKnows's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:54 AM

Or Ugly as sin.....


So how does that explain me, then?

touchybear's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:56 AM
ever think..that maybe they just started site and havent got around to pictures yet...or havent any picturs on line????i guess i always like to look for the positive side...thew best in a person...

DebbieJT's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:56 AM
always wonder what they have to hide...unless they are useless at downloading

Lily0923's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:58 AM


Or Ugly as sin.....


So how does that explain me, then?


awe, darlin' you're a doll....

JaceKnows's photo
Fri 03/28/08 05:59 AM
Ha, slipped through the cracks, that's all.

You're too sweet, Lily. (=

lilangel2's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:01 AM

Well I'm not a lady, but since your all so negative this morning I'm gonna respond to this anyways...

There could be several respectable reasons also, just off the top of my head...
-Not owning digital camera (yes some ppl still perfer film, i know its hard to believe)
-Shy
-Wants to be judged by who they are, not how thier nice thier "assets" are.

They say you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, I think that applies to even if the cover is blank.



I think you might be speaking of a very tiny fraction of the cases. "If it looks like a duck"....As far as judging a book by the cover...well,, one factor that people just seem to want to skirt all around is that 98% of a relationshuip is physical attraction. Nature gave us visual cues to be attracted. It is called chemistry. It is nice to think that someone might fall in love with you blindly, but reality is it is the whole package that is attractive.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:02 AM

ever think..that maybe they just started site and havent got around to pictures yet...or havent any picturs on line????i guess i always like to look for the positive side...thew best in a person...


JMO but if you are joining a site for dating, why wouldn't you have the forsight to have a photo of yourself???

So if I consider your point, I have to add DUMB to a reason why they don't have a picture.... I too like to look for the positives.... I don't like to think people are dumb.... until they prove me wrong that is....

I can see the "wanting people to get to know them first" but I personally have to have some sort of attraction to them.... Call me shallow.... but isn't it better to know this upfront about me, then to talk to me for months and months then find out I am a tad on the shallow side???laugh laugh laugh

lilangel2's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:05 AM


ever think..that maybe they just started site and havent got around to pictures yet...or havent any picturs on line????i guess i always like to look for the positive side...thew best in a person...


JMO but if you are joining a site for dating, why wouldn't you have the forsight to have a photo of yourself???

So if I consider your point, I have to add DUMB to a reason why they don't have a picture.... I too like to look for the positives.... I don't like to think people are dumb.... until they prove me wrong that is....

I can see the "wanting people to get to know them first" but I personally have to have some sort of attraction to them.... Call me shallow.... but isn't it better to know this upfront about me, then to talk to me for months and months then find out I am a tad on the shallow side???laugh laugh laugh



"So if I consider your point, I have to add DUMB to a reason why they don't have a picture.... " LOL laugh laugh laugh

JaceKnows's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:07 AM
It's ridiculously easy to get a picture online. ESPECIALLY for a "dating" website.

"I don't have a digital camera." - Well, 1 in 5 people do. More people have digital cameras than have cell phones, if you can believe that.

"I don't have five friends." - Walgreens will TAKE your picture for 5.95, two of em! Wal Mart portrait studio will take eleventy billion pictures of you for 9.95! With different backgrounds!

"I don't have 5.95." - Then you should concentrate on getting a job, rather than getting pictures.

brooke007's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:10 AM
keep talkin, who cares???

but explain to them how to upload a pic
and borrow a digital camera if needed

flowerforyou flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:10 AM

It's ridiculously easy to get a picture online. ESPECIALLY for a "dating" website.

"I don't have a digital camera." - Well, 1 in 5 people do. More people have digital cameras than have cell phones, if you can believe that.

"I don't have five friends." - Walgreens will TAKE your picture for 5.95, two of em! Wal Mart portrait studio will take eleventy billion pictures of you for 9.95! With different backgrounds!

"I don't have 5.95." - Then you should concentrate on getting a job, rather than getting pictures.


you said elevenly billion..... that's how i count..

my frind acts like he is 80, and he is 22.. I always tell him he was born in nineteen ****ity two.....

DebbieJT's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:10 AM

It's ridiculously easy to get a picture online. ESPECIALLY for a "dating" website.

"I don't have a digital camera." - Well, 1 in 5 people do. More people have digital cameras than have cell phones, if you can believe that.

"I don't have five friends." - Walgreens will TAKE your picture for 5.95, two of em! Wal Mart portrait studio will take eleventy billion pictures of you for 9.95! With different backgrounds!

"I don't have 5.95." - Then you should concentrate on getting a job, rather than getting pictures.
Wow your punctuation is brilliant :tongue: laugh

no photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:11 AM
What is ur response 2 my dilemna then.I have sent several e-mails 2 mngmt,& they have all gone unanswered.Of course I agree w/ur comment concerning physical attraction,but I'm greatly concerned however in regards 2 inner beauty or lack thereof.(imo)flowerforyou

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