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Let's face it, it might seem like a daunting task to ask the girl you like out on a date. Gathering the courage to walk up to her and ask if she'd like to join you for something. Well have no fear because after reading this how-to guide to asking a girl out, you'll be a pro. Of course it would be recommended you practice asking your mom or sister out for example, to make sure you don't goof when you ask the girl you really like to go out with you.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what you want to ask the girl out for. Do you want to take her out to the movies, to a restaurant for some of her favorite food (you'll need to find out what that is before you take her to some spicy food place that will give her indigestion!), to a skating rink, a school dance, a party at a friends' place, and the list goes on. Once you know where you want to ask her to go, consider your choice again: will be enjoy watching a live football game with you, while you're shouting beside her about a referee's decision? If you think she will be happy to join you for a romantic dinner by candlelight, then great. The reason this is so important is that she might actually want to go out with you, but she might just not be interested in the activity you chose to inviting her to. If she rejects you, you might never have the guts to ask her out again, so don't make a silly mistake like this one. Next you need to practice asking her out. This is a very important technique that will really help you to keep your cool when you go up to the girl of your dreams and ask her to join you for a date. Think of what she looks like, how pretty she is, how nice it will be when she says yes to proposition. Whatever you do, don't think of what might happen if she says no! Just go over how you're going to ask her out, what you will say, how she will reply and remember to smile. Smiling is something that can be shared between people and it greatly increases the bonds between friends or even strangers. Now that you've pictured yourself successfully asking your new girlfriend out, practice out loud. I don't care if this is embarrassing, if you really want to make sure this girl respects you and says yes to your question, then you need to practice asking her out. You can ask your mom or sisters to practice with you. She might be able to give you some pointers as to what you should be doing, maybe you shouldn't fidget with your hands in your pockets and try not to stutter. Once you have some feedback you should go back to practicing a bit more. After you know exactly what you're going to say and you've anticipated what the girl of your dreams will say back to you (make sure she says yes in your fantasies!), then it's time to prepare a real plan. Find out where she hangs out, when she has free time and when would be the best time for you to ask her out. Now just execute the visual movie you had in your mind, and things will go smoothly. Remember that she might not actually respond exactly like you had imaged, be prepared for that. Just go with the flow, and be ready to smile widely when she says yes. Now you can ask your new date what she would prefer to do, and if the time of your choice works well for her. That's it! Once you have practiced enough times, the courage will come naturally and you'll be asking your girl out in no time. Be sure to treat your new lady friend well, because she didn't accept to go on a date with you for no reason!  
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Thats some excellent advice Tom.
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It had some good and bad parts. I'm too tired to explain which parts were which though.
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not bad but i still think a Tranq gun and Duct Tape work best
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I may pass this onto my son. thanks
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